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This is my first (1st) forum report ever. I'll try to make this as short as possible.
I'm a total newbie, i've been reading pua articles and books for over 2 years now, but only in the last month or two started really actually going out somewhat regularly. So i go out with this cool dude i met up at a meetup. We had gone out a few times before. I met him tonight with his two friends from outta town. We go to a bar, leave, go to a 2nd bar, go back to the 1st one, then eventually go back to the 2nd bar, it was about 1o am at this time. I have approach about 3 girls throughout the night (one which was a 20 min good conversation-my friends were jealous ha) I chilled back for most of it. (this is where it gets good) Eventually, i see this girl at the bar, facing me directly, smiling super big, playing with her hair, her head tilted slightly. There were some people between us so i wasnt sure for the first 30 seconds or so if she was staring at me or not. Eventually i decided she was looking at me, obviously very inviting, so i told my friend i'd be back and went to approach her. (this is GOOD) I approach her and lean down and put my arm on her back.
Me: WHY ARE YOU HERE ALONE? HER: OH, I DONT KNOW. ME: WHO ARE YOU HERE WITH? HER: MY FRIEND. ME: WHERE IS YOUR FRIEND? HER: AT THE DANCEFLOOR. ME: WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE DANCEFLOOR? HER: I GUESS I DON'T HAVE ANYONE TO DANCE WITH. ME: OK, LET'S GO.
I took her hand and started leading her to the dancefloor. She eventually lead me in hand through the crowd to the dancefloor. She found her friend, hugged her, turned to me and waved for me to come to her. We started dancing. I immediately put my hands on her hips/waist and we started dancing. She was grinding on me(facing me/facing away from me) and we put our heads together, our noses also touching. We put our heads on each other shoulders. We were in complete physical contact at this point. It occurred to me it would be a total shame if i failed to kiss her, and within 30 seconds we started to make out sporadically. She even bit my upper lip. she said i was a good kisser. still grinding, still sporadic makeouts, her friend came by and seemed a little off. i asked her if my friend was ok, and she said yeah. My girl then whispered in my ear, "my friend approved". so yeah. that was it. I got her number, SHE SAID: DONT BE ONE OF THOSE GUYS WHO NEVER CALLS BACK. ME: I'LL CALL. but apparently it was an invalid #, i don't know if she did that intentionally or accidentally but that was it.
Really quick i want to put my thoughts down about the whole thing.
1. that was the most amazing moment of my life for the last 1 year bascially. that was the most physical contact i've had with a girl in a year.
2. I approached a girl, within 30 seconds took her to the dancefloor, grinded on her, and made out with her. ---the whole thing was soo surreal, but i was in heaven.
3. i dont know if i just got lucky, if i was in the right place at the right time, or i just happened to do everything right, i'm not sure, but it sure as hell motivates me to keep going out and try to make something like that happen again.
4. i've never seen a girl be soooo obvious. she was directly facing me, smiling at me, playing with her hair and her head tilted. I've never seen a girl be so obvioius before. I don't know if she just had one too many drinks, or if she just really found me attractive, but HELL! i wasn't going to question a good thing.
5. that was the most unprecedented experience for me so far in my life. that was only my 2nd girl to have ever made out with in my life.
thats all, thank you. comments are very much welcome.
I'm a total newbie, i've been reading pua articles and books for over 2 years now, but only in the last month or two started really actually going out somewhat regularly. So i go out with this cool dude i met up at a meetup. We had gone out a few times before. I met him tonight with his two friends from outta town. We go to a bar, leave, go to a 2nd bar, go back to the 1st one, then eventually go back to the 2nd bar, it was about 1o am at this time. I have approach about 3 girls throughout the night (one which was a 20 min good conversation-my friends were jealous ha) I chilled back for most of it. (this is where it gets good) Eventually, i see this girl at the bar, facing me directly, smiling super big, playing with her hair, her head tilted slightly. There were some people between us so i wasnt sure for the first 30 seconds or so if she was staring at me or not. Eventually i decided she was looking at me, obviously very inviting, so i told my friend i'd be back and went to approach her. (this is GOOD) I approach her and lean down and put my arm on her back.
Me: WHY ARE YOU HERE ALONE? HER: OH, I DONT KNOW. ME: WHO ARE YOU HERE WITH? HER: MY FRIEND. ME: WHERE IS YOUR FRIEND? HER: AT THE DANCEFLOOR. ME: WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE DANCEFLOOR? HER: I GUESS I DON'T HAVE ANYONE TO DANCE WITH. ME: OK, LET'S GO.
I took her hand and started leading her to the dancefloor. She eventually lead me in hand through the crowd to the dancefloor. She found her friend, hugged her, turned to me and waved for me to come to her. We started dancing. I immediately put my hands on her hips/waist and we started dancing. She was grinding on me(facing me/facing away from me) and we put our heads together, our noses also touching. We put our heads on each other shoulders. We were in complete physical contact at this point. It occurred to me it would be a total shame if i failed to kiss her, and within 30 seconds we started to make out sporadically. She even bit my upper lip. she said i was a good kisser. still grinding, still sporadic makeouts, her friend came by and seemed a little off. i asked her if my friend was ok, and she said yeah. My girl then whispered in my ear, "my friend approved". so yeah. that was it. I got her number, SHE SAID: DONT BE ONE OF THOSE GUYS WHO NEVER CALLS BACK. ME: I'LL CALL. but apparently it was an invalid #, i don't know if she did that intentionally or accidentally but that was it.
Really quick i want to put my thoughts down about the whole thing.
1. that was the most amazing moment of my life for the last 1 year bascially. that was the most physical contact i've had with a girl in a year.
2. I approached a girl, within 30 seconds took her to the dancefloor, grinded on her, and made out with her. ---the whole thing was soo surreal, but i was in heaven.
3. i dont know if i just got lucky, if i was in the right place at the right time, or i just happened to do everything right, i'm not sure, but it sure as hell motivates me to keep going out and try to make something like that happen again.
4. i've never seen a girl be soooo obvious. she was directly facing me, smiling at me, playing with her hair and her head tilted. I've never seen a girl be so obvioius before. I don't know if she just had one too many drinks, or if she just really found me attractive, but HELL! i wasn't going to question a good thing.
5. that was the most unprecedented experience for me so far in my life. that was only my 2nd girl to have ever made out with in my life.
thats all, thank you. comments are very much welcome.