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Thoughts here. (This is in no direct reference to girlsfollow.)
I been noticing a small but noticeable pattern. I might need more stats on this.
If you have an FWB relationship with a girl longer than a year, it will have equal 50/50 chance to deteriorate when you want to change it to a relationship. I have seen it with friends(who are friends for many years) that turn couples, which didn't workout and they decide to not continue their relationship further, and my experience where i treated a girl as an FWB for 2 years and see it deteriorated when i want to turn her to a girlfriend after that.
What i learn is that she's feeling three things.
1)Wants a relationship
2)Thinks you an FWB
3)That spark is abit off, took you two years to finally get lovey dovey. (She might be thinking something is wrong)
So we probably need something big to counter this "weird" feeling she has, A marriage perhaps? (nah joking). I think a short holiday or something relatively big to surprise her and let her know how she is important in your life.
Zac
I been noticing a small but noticeable pattern. I might need more stats on this.
If you have an FWB relationship with a girl longer than a year, it will have equal 50/50 chance to deteriorate when you want to change it to a relationship. I have seen it with friends(who are friends for many years) that turn couples, which didn't workout and they decide to not continue their relationship further, and my experience where i treated a girl as an FWB for 2 years and see it deteriorated when i want to turn her to a girlfriend after that.
What i learn is that she's feeling three things.
1)Wants a relationship
2)Thinks you an FWB
3)That spark is abit off, took you two years to finally get lovey dovey. (She might be thinking something is wrong)
So we probably need something big to counter this "weird" feeling she has, A marriage perhaps? (nah joking). I think a short holiday or something relatively big to surprise her and let her know how she is important in your life.
Zac