Do thorough recon on logistics maps of the area. have a good understanding of the lay of the land and how you can run three bounce structured dates on scrappy logistics. find standard date spots like coffee shops and bars but also be aware of secret nooks and crannies you can pull to. Also things in the city she may not have considered like galleries, museums, libraries. For any date spot you have, be aware of a solid place to pull to within 15 minutes. Be it by foot or by car.
Car escalation will be your friend.
Be the guy who show's her parts of her city she didn't even know were there. The adventurous breath of fresh air that shows her things that are right under local guys noses. Reality pace to generate that sense of fresh perspective. By actually exploring the city you will have good stories of your adventures to hook her with. plus will make the whole trip more fun for you in general. Gotta make the best of downtime to recharge and what not.
That said, a simple coffee shop date can do the trick. no need to go overboard.
Screen for logistics early and often, and let go logistics inform how you proceed. Understand that instant dates and same day lays are way more rare than getting leads that you follow up with on a later date. The chances of a girl being both down and currently availiable or somewhat slim, but not too uncommon. I just wouldn't have expectations too high.
If a gal is busy at the moment, you can get her out later in the day, or the next day (you should have screened for these logistics) but she has to be pretty hooked at that point. Go strong with the lover frames and screen for gals who are down. This will give her a reason to actually show up, and not just bail cause a boyfriend vibe. Set up the date then and there. If she is wishy washy figure out why and address it then and there. Even if the interaction ends on a "maybe" you will have gotten I front of the issue and can still maybe get her out. Since you are only in town for a day or two the window is slim, so I doesn't really hurt to go hail mary (granted you are not being pushy/needy)
Chances are she is not going for a long-distance boyfriend off the bat ( maybe after she discovers what you're made of)
If you do generate leads that you can't get out but want to try and get out next trip, that is a bit of a text balancing act. You got to keep the connection there without blowing the intrigue. End the interaction on the right precedence. Let her know you pass through from time to time and grab her number under the pretense that you two will connect then for a shared activity (something you both hit it off on, let checking out the art galleries, hiking, hitting up that chocolate shop, and so on) The times I have pulled something like that off it looked mostly like solid interaction- brief connection solidifying texts- go radio silent- re engagement text about two weeks before visit- generate momentum- phone call to establish I will be visiting/build chemistry back up and remind her why we connected in the first place -a couple texts to solidify date. As you can imagine, retaining these types of leads can be be tricky, but if the initial interaction is solid, and you can maintain a sense of connection without overdoing it, it's totally possible.
if you gotta crash in your car Wal-Mart and home depot let you for a couple nights in a row. just don't over stay your welcome. Also BLM land as well. Plus there are always camping sites on the outskirts. I don't know about you but waking up in nature gives me tons of positive energy to share.
Planet fitness is about $22 a month for a pass to any location. Stay fresh and clean. Have a set of clothes to sleep in, and a couple change of outfits. Keep your outfits popping and dress well. Have toiletries so you can stay fresh. Just cause you're sleeping in your car doesn't mean you have to look/smell like a bum.
Bring a pillow, an eye mask and ear plugs. Adjust your car for maximum sleeping comfort. Gotta get that beauty rest.
