Online Dating: How do you guys deal with matches not replying

[empath]

Thanks for the I advise I will start putting this into a process.

Also, I have started asking girls why did they swiped right while bantering

To solidify I am their choice kinda way

Their usual reply is I looked good/handsome.

It serves as a validation/ego boost to me.

So does a good pic translate into girls finding me good looking irl as well?

I am actually not very photogenic so I think it should. These were candid pics that I have posted.

 

[POB]

Also, I have started asking girls why did they swiped right while bantering

You could that, but only if you use it as a tease.
I would not use it as common banther, seems kinda desperate for attention

Their usual reply is I looked good/handsome.

Now this is a good indicator that your pics are ok.
Even so, improve them as much as you can

So does a good pic translate into girls finding me good looking irl as well?

Doesn't matter... what matters is putting girls in front of you so you can start seducing them irl

 

[empath]

You could that, but only if you use it as a tease.
I would not use it as common banther, seems kinda desperate for attention

Now this is a good indicator that your pics are ok.
Even so, improve them as much as you can

Doesn't matter... what matters is putting girls in front of you so you can start seducing them irl

How you would have used it as a tease?

I have these pics on my profile nothing much written. I end matching up 50-60% of time with hotties with lot of stuff written on their profile showing personality.

I just became curious why are they swiping right.

Excuse these girls are giving is assignments for not meeting

 

[raiden]

So does a good pic translate into girls finding me good looking irl as well?

Definitely not. I have poor fundamentals and I get unforgiving behaviour in real life. But I get dates and women are happy to rearrange their schedules to meet me. So my photos must be good but they can't make up for my real fundamentals.

 

[empath]

U must he doing something real good while texting as well.

Yeah I get it now, gaming IRL seems best at least leads are more solid and your end up developing fundamentals which will stay with you for long time.