Actually, this is a question for a friend, not for me. Unfortunately, I was not present by myself to judge.
Also, I think it is a common theme so I think it will benefit everyone in the forum.
He knows a girl from a social circle. Let's call her Sara. He asked her out; she rejected him nicely. My friend has been friendly to her as she is a sweet person. A few weeks after, she got a boyfriend.
One time, he was invited to a birthday party where she was there. My friend was well-dressed, by far he was the best at the party. People stared at him the moment he walked in. Now, Sara kept giving him AI's. Even at one point, she moved and sat by him, for him to open her. You know she was sitting by him, and she said nothing. He did not open her.
The party was over and the next time my friend met Sara. Sara was totally into the auto-rejection. She completely ignored him.
My opinion: she was not seeking attention, she had a genuine interest that night. My reasons:
1- She auto-rejected. This is an emotional reaction. If she was looking for attention, she would not auto-reject.
2-If she was looking for attention; she would open him herself. She did not have to go and sit there uncomfortably.
3- She walked to sit by him. I feel this is a kind of investment as it is some physical work.
My friend's Opinion: She was looking for attention. His reasons:
1- Her current boyfriend is 6 ft and more muscular than my friend.
2-She rejected my friend before.
What do you think guys?
Also, I think it is a common theme so I think it will benefit everyone in the forum.
He knows a girl from a social circle. Let's call her Sara. He asked her out; she rejected him nicely. My friend has been friendly to her as she is a sweet person. A few weeks after, she got a boyfriend.
One time, he was invited to a birthday party where she was there. My friend was well-dressed, by far he was the best at the party. People stared at him the moment he walked in. Now, Sara kept giving him AI's. Even at one point, she moved and sat by him, for him to open her. You know she was sitting by him, and she said nothing. He did not open her.
The party was over and the next time my friend met Sara. Sara was totally into the auto-rejection. She completely ignored him.
My opinion: she was not seeking attention, she had a genuine interest that night. My reasons:
1- She auto-rejected. This is an emotional reaction. If she was looking for attention, she would not auto-reject.
2-If she was looking for attention; she would open him herself. She did not have to go and sit there uncomfortably.
3- She walked to sit by him. I feel this is a kind of investment as it is some physical work.
My friend's Opinion: She was looking for attention. His reasons:
1- Her current boyfriend is 6 ft and more muscular than my friend.
2-She rejected my friend before.
What do you think guys?
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