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Re: We need an article on how to follow up a flake

Flux, at that point I would kick her to the curb. Sent her a ball in your court message and then forget about her. I don't like her second reply one bit, especially not after her first social faux pas.
by DarkKnight
Thu May 23, 2019 2:33 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: We need an article on how to follow up a flake
Replies: 7
Views: 60

Re: Would you have opened this girl?

Haha you're pretty much confirming what I am thinking. I think I did just fine, thanks Flux :)
by DarkKnight
Thu May 23, 2019 2:31 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Would you have opened this girl?
Replies: 4
Views: 30

Re: Would you have opened this girl?

I get you Flux, but this one needs to do her best to draw my attention back again. The moment is kind of spoiled for me. I rather focus on other girls. The only thing I was wondering is whether I am being too cocky. What would you have done? Would you have approached for the hell of it? It simply di...
by DarkKnight
Wed May 22, 2019 6:55 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Would you have opened this girl?
Replies: 4
Views: 30

Would you have opened this girl?

Two weeks ago, I spotted a hotty in the gym who looked at me multiple times, there was definitely some interest. I could not talk to her at that moment (I was participating in a group training) but I knew I would see her later and would talk with her then. Fast forward to today: I notice her and che...
by DarkKnight
Wed May 22, 2019 5:20 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Would you have opened this girl?
Replies: 4
Views: 30

Re: We need an article on how to follow up a flake

Flux, I'm curious about how your case will work out. I would love to hear the aftermath. The way I see it you have reacted pretty much perfectly.
by DarkKnight
Wed May 22, 2019 7:02 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: We need an article on how to follow up a flake
Replies: 7
Views: 60

Re: We need an article on how to follow up a flake

Thank you Varoon!
by DarkKnight
Tue May 21, 2019 12:36 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: We need an article on how to follow up a flake
Replies: 7
Views: 60

We need an article on how to follow up a flake

Hey all, We really need an article on how to follow up a flake I think most of us are familiar with Chase's article on "what to do when girls flake". And I believe it is good advice, but there is one key ingredient missing and that's about how to follow up on flakes. In the article the gir...
by DarkKnight
Tue May 21, 2019 10:16 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: We need an article on how to follow up a flake
Replies: 7
Views: 60

Re: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.

I think I should lower my standards from time to time as well. I try to be to focus too many times on the stunners but ignore the 6's and 7's who throw themselves on me.
by DarkKnight
Fri May 17, 2019 5:08 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.
Replies: 8
Views: 100

Re: What if a guy decided not to get married or LTR in his 30s?

Dude you have some weird ass paradigms. People don't "suck more" when they become older. Not everyone is on a mission to become a super seducer. People are just people. But I do agree that after the age of 24 a lot of people let themselves go and settling down becomes something like hedgin...
by DarkKnight
Thu May 16, 2019 4:21 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: What if a guy decided not to get married or LTR in his 30s?
Replies: 4
Views: 96

Re: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.

What makes some 19 year old girl high level in your opinion, I am curious about that. Girls are just girls. Or they are Cersei Lannister (fucked up).
by DarkKnight
Thu May 16, 2019 4:13 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.
Replies: 8
Views: 100

Re: Should I pursue?

I missed the part where it is online. I don't even bother with that anymore especially when the streets are crawling with hot babes during this time of the year!

A lot of girls online just want some attention you know.
by DarkKnight
Thu May 16, 2019 3:27 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Should I pursue?
Replies: 6
Views: 49

Re: Should I pursue?

You know the answer already Sub-Zero : Meet more girls. I see no technical question here, you are just wondering if you have to next her. Deep down you probably already know. Flaking means disinterest, 9 out of 10 times. Yes you can cajole and calibrate and whatever but I can promise you there are j...
by DarkKnight
Thu May 16, 2019 11:48 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Should I pursue?
Replies: 6
Views: 49

Re: Importance of assuming attraction

Yes I understand Flux and I agree that it helps with stopping to dilly dallying. However law of least effort can be interpreted multiple ways. Sometimes you really need to be persistent because people need to be led, especially women because they can be risk averse and you can pick that up as disint...
by DarkKnight
Tue May 14, 2019 10:26 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Importance of assuming attraction
Replies: 6
Views: 95

Re: Importance of assuming attraction

Space, Chase has some excellent articles on those subjects as well. Your post however seems to be more relevant to "the law of least effort" than what I am trying to convey.
by DarkKnight
Mon May 13, 2019 11:04 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Importance of assuming attraction
Replies: 6
Views: 95

Re: Importance of assuming attraction

Haha if I were Bruce Wayne I would only bang models instead of fighting crime but I digress.

Nothing wrong with covertly looking for signs or the girls vibe though. But pinging means automatic chasing.
by DarkKnight
Sun May 12, 2019 3:43 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Importance of assuming attraction
Replies: 6
Views: 95

Importance of assuming attraction

The further I get, the more I feel the nuances of assuming attraction. It is much more than getting the confidence to approach a girl, it also gives you implied preselection by your mannerism, destroys neediness, gives you better frame control and also helps you move faster. What it also does is it ...
by DarkKnight
Sun May 12, 2019 1:08 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Importance of assuming attraction
Replies: 6
Views: 95

Re: Old friend Shows Interest out of nowhere

You're overinvesting dude. Yes, be persistent and move fast but don't act as if the world depends on her committal. You'll get needy or too hesitant otherwise. Just try to strike hard and fast. And keep talking to other girls, just in case.
by DarkKnight
Sun May 12, 2019 10:24 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Old friend Shows Interest out of nowhere
Replies: 8
Views: 104

Re: Reach out or nah

You never know what people are about man. Is she the nervous kind of girl? I would give it one go, only one. Just be wary about over analyzing about her. It's always better to meet new girls in that case.
by DarkKnight
Sun May 12, 2019 10:21 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Reach out or nah
Replies: 7
Views: 77

Staying out of boyfriend consideration

How do you guys stay out of boyfriend zone? A recurring problem with me despite my bad boy behaviour is chicks wanting me as a boyfriend. I tend to pull back a little when I notice they are way too invested. How do you guys go about this?
by DarkKnight
Wed May 08, 2019 4:35 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Staying out of boyfriend consideration
Replies: 0
Views: 31

Re: If a girl just went into autorejection, do you still try?

Hey great advice Flux. I dont think I showed desperation, since I was in abundance mode and was fooling around quite a bit. I will do exactly what you say to turn this around. She probably thought she put herself out there too much and I messed up. Ofcourse we cant know for sure until I make a move....
by DarkKnight
Tue May 07, 2019 2:45 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: If a girl just went into autorejection, do you still try?
Replies: 2
Views: 53

If a girl just went into autorejection, do you still try?

Hey guys, I have been screwing up things lately by being way too picky about eager girls. Part of it was because I noticed that these girls want a relationship and I just want to fool around. Well suddenly I find myself in a scarcity situation, which is partly caused by the shitty weather. Difficult...
by DarkKnight
Mon May 06, 2019 4:46 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: If a girl just went into autorejection, do you still try?
Replies: 2
Views: 53

Re: Revealing Seduction Knowledge

Hey man, My experience? Most guys have shit fundamentals. As long as you really focus on fundamentals those most guys cannot compete or they blow themselves out of the water. The guy you are describing is making your level an issue, which shows he is intimidated. I would "law of least effort&qu...
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 24, 2019 9:35 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Revealing Seduction Knowledge
Replies: 6
Views: 68

Attraction is either there or it isn't, or is there?. This one is for you Chase!

Hey guys, I noticed the strangest thing recently. Usually I go with the intuition (also backed up with Chase's article https://www.girlschase.com/content/attraction-either-there-or-it-isnt ) that a girl is either attracted to you or not. I also like Varoon's traffic light system. Makes things effici...
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 24, 2019 9:16 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Attraction is either there or it isn't, or is there?. This one is for you Chase!
Replies: 1
Views: 42

Re: Revealing Seduction Knowledge

To be honest I would not let anyone on on anything either. Most guys don't have a CLUE about dating dynamics. They can struggle and fail over and over again, you can do 10 times better but the moment you mention theory they look at you as if you are some kind of mad scientist. Also a lot of people f...
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 24, 2019 9:02 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Revealing Seduction Knowledge
Replies: 6
Views: 68

Re: Effective ways to communicate scarcity

Flux, you summarized it pretty well I guess. I think the big thing with ME is that I usually do only real cold approaches and have never tweaked myself for social circle game. And indeed I also am not crazy about giving too much validation, or to stall too much which can make you too available and m...
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 24, 2019 8:27 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Effective ways to communicate scarcity
Replies: 6
Views: 87

Re: Effective ways to communicate scarcity

Can you explain what you meant with "reassurance"?
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 24, 2019 12:05 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Effective ways to communicate scarcity
Replies: 6
Views: 87

Re: Effective ways to communicate scarcity

Hey Flux, Yes, I also am a proponent of forcing decisions, because again, I do not like wasting my time. I think it is indeed a good idea to in some way communicate that in the future this chance won´t reappear. Sometimes I have been thinking about when I sense a girl being doubtful tell her somethi...
by DarkKnight
Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:27 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Effective ways to communicate scarcity
Replies: 6
Views: 87

Effective ways to communicate scarcity

Hello all, I have been thinking, some girls who I meet through social circle especially can happen to put off making decisions. Usually I move fast (waiting to make things happen is so boring and an utter waste of time). Sometimes this happens: I can swear that a girl likes me, but she is making all...
by DarkKnight
Sat Apr 20, 2019 4:39 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Effective ways to communicate scarcity
Replies: 6
Views: 87

Re: Favorite "Manly Movie"

Fun subject. Well I like most movies from the eighties or ninetees from Schwarzenegger, Stallone, Van Damme, Mel Gibson etc. But there is one movie which has always been absolutely magic for me: Conan the Barbarian. The incredible musical score, Schwarzeneggers imposing looks after he has done his s...
by DarkKnight
Tue Apr 16, 2019 4:55 pm
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Favorite "Manly Movie"
Replies: 11
Views: 3766

Re: Meeting girls in coffee shops

Cool, I tend to frequent these kinds of places as well because the weather here is absolutely shit. Usually I do not wait for too much signs of interest. I try to open while also asking for compliance. "Hey I have to go to the toilet, can you look after some of my stuff." I bring this in p...
by DarkKnight
Sun Apr 14, 2019 2:24 pm
 
Forum: Tactics & Techniques
Topic: Meeting girls in coffee shops
Replies: 1
Views: 90

Re: Thank You Girlschase for unveiling behind the ambiguity.

Zac , I really have trouble sometimes with deciphering what you are writing haha, but I notice I agree when I can understand what you are pointing on. Indeed most people have no clue about the reality of dating and it brings lots of confusion. It is much easier to place expectations or see what is g...
by DarkKnight
Sat Apr 13, 2019 10:21 am
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Thank You Girlschase for unveiling behind the ambiguity.
Replies: 2
Views: 61

Re: Escalation Windows and "Normal Guys"

Problem with average guys is that they second guess everything and wonder if the girl is "interested". I think most of these guys find girlfriends through social circle or pure luck. 9 out of 10 times it seems to be social circle and also because these guys tend to not notice signs of inte...
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 03, 2019 9:50 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Escalation Windows and "Normal Guys"
Replies: 1
Views: 40

Re: going back to college at 30 and rich?

Ree, honestly I didn't even understand that it was an aprils fools post. I only thought that everything I read went ENTIRELY against Girlschase values. Haha, now I understand.

Good one Varoon
by DarkKnight
Wed Apr 03, 2019 9:47 am
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: going back to college at 30 and rich?
Replies: 23
Views: 424

Re: Toxic perhaps truthful beliefs about adult life that stop me from happiness.

Hey man this is really getting obnoxious. We all vent once in a while, but you're kind of spamming the forum. How about a much better suggestion: Focus on what is good, take action to make things better. Also stop blaming others for your unhappiness, you are insulting the majority of the people out ...
by DarkKnight
Wed Mar 27, 2019 11:10 am
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Toxic perhaps truthful beliefs about adult life that stop me from happiness.
Replies: 3
Views: 224

Re: How to rekindle interest from a girl? (Long Read)

Fuck this is speaking my language.

I could not read the entire wall of text, but it shows in combination with your title one thing: Scarcity and overinvestment. Work on your fundamentals and on other girls. It is really that simple.
by DarkKnight
Wed Mar 27, 2019 8:07 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How to rekindle interest from a girl? (Long Read)
Replies: 2
Views: 86

Re: Fucking around with girls who reject your approach (in a good way)

I would not immediately eject, because I like to hold my frame whenever possible, but I don't think it's a great idea to provoke people unnecessary. Usually I have a "take it or leave it" attitude when I get a rejection. Also I behave just "normal" and totally happy, especially b...
by DarkKnight
Wed Mar 27, 2019 8:03 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Fucking around with girls who reject your approach (in a good way)
Replies: 2
Views: 48

Re: Approaching a girl who is with her friend

Hey Hue, I'm doing fine thank you. Just brooding on a tower over the city, or drinking Nespresso in the batcave. You know typical Bruce Wayne stuff :p. Lol. How are you? On Topic: I read carefully through your analysis and it's really solid advice and provides me with a gameplan which I can visualiz...
by DarkKnight
Wed Mar 27, 2019 7:02 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Approaching a girl who is with her friend
Replies: 2
Views: 46

Approaching a girl who is with her friend

Hey guys, I noticed a gap in my game and it has been bothering me. I can approach girls who are in a group, because it is easier when others can talk to each other, but I have difficulty with approaching a girl who is with only one girlfriend. This is not about approach anxiety. The thing is, when a...
by DarkKnight
Tue Mar 26, 2019 4:50 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Approaching a girl who is with her friend
Replies: 2
Views: 46

Re: Can't forget her EX problem

Dude, you are WAY too much interested in a girl who is not yours. You're betting against the odds right now. The advice which has been given by the other members are all sound and I agree, but I think your biggest problem is scarcity. Talk to more girls and don't get attached to a girl which is not ...
by DarkKnight
Tue Mar 26, 2019 8:05 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Can't forget her EX problem
Replies: 12
Views: 154

Re: Et Tu, (Lady) Brute?

Interesting question, You cannot trust anyone indefinitely. The only thing you can trust people with is being human. If you sleep with a woman at the workplace, it will probably come out, it usually does. Also you mention yourself that you DO have a gut feeling, but you ignore this because of your m...
by DarkKnight
Wed Mar 20, 2019 10:32 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Et Tu, (Lady) Brute?
Replies: 2
Views: 41

Re: Self-defense options

I saw this subject pretty late and having a long history with martial arts wanted to chime in. With self defense, the best thing to do is avoid unneccesary conflict. But there is a nuance to it, you have to show that you are not conflict shy because you can't stand your ground, just that it is a res...
by DarkKnight
Tue Mar 12, 2019 9:58 am
 
Forum: Lifestyle
Topic: Self-defense options
Replies: 7
Views: 302

Re: Curiosity question: Willingness to walk away

So, I was skimming yesterday through Chase's post searching for nuggets of wisdom and I encountered this: a reply to a post of my own which I had totally forgotten to reply to. So I will reply now: three months later. I think I have gotten the line between persistence and neediness down, though it d...
by DarkKnight
Tue Mar 12, 2019 9:49 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Curiosity question: Willingness to walk away
Replies: 4
Views: 257

Re: How to interpret girls that are working?

Nothing wrong with being a newbie buddy, we all started from scratch. About fundamentals, just google "girlschase" and "fundamentals" and you will see an entire list of articles by Chase, which are really good. Fundamentals do take time and effort to develop however, you cannot b...
by DarkKnight
Tue Mar 12, 2019 9:40 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How to interpret girls that are working?
Replies: 10
Views: 284

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

Wow, that is some epic scale of negativity Toby. First off, lose the illusion that life is some great fairytale. I swear lots of people seem to live with this paradigm. Real life includes pain, struggle, suffering, loss. You need to accept that or else you will always be stuck in this negativity: be...
by DarkKnight
Sat Mar 09, 2019 8:55 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 1214

Re: Girl gives me strong eye contact as smile multiple times ?

First off, ignore the girls who are sitting opposite of you. Ofcourse they will observe you opening the other girl, but if you have good fundamentals they probably will get jealous. Also the girl who you would have opened would have noticed that I think, they usually do. You could have used a situat...
by DarkKnight
Fri Mar 08, 2019 9:30 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Girl gives me strong eye contact as smile multiple times ?
Replies: 4
Views: 140

Re: I told you guys, DON'T hit on girls in the gym....

I want to chime in. I had enough of times that I have pulled from the gym. Also girls with boyfriends tend to flock to me (which actually can creep me out at times, with the boyfriend being 3 meters away from us!). So I think these assumptions are really wrong. Also, maybe I am reading this wrong bu...
by DarkKnight
Fri Mar 08, 2019 9:12 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: I told you guys, DON'T hit on girls in the gym....
Replies: 6
Views: 359

Re: Chase, Franco: where to find original info on attainability?

Hey man, I am just curious why you want Sebastian Drake's attainability tech, since the articles of Chase pretty much cover this into detail, it is also interwoven into the subject of auto-rejection. And yeah it still surprises me too that most people have no idea about auto-rejection and attainabil...
by DarkKnight
Fri Feb 22, 2019 9:35 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Chase, Franco: where to find original info on attainability?
Replies: 2
Views: 140

About fractionation

So I have been reading some Alek Rolstad articles (which are great, I really like your in-depth style of writing). A topic which has intrigued me more and more is fractionation, I am still struggling with conceptually understanding it, while simultanously realizing that I have been fractionating by ...
by DarkKnight
Wed Feb 20, 2019 5:14 pm
 
Forum: Advanced
Topic: About fractionation
Replies: 0
Views: 73

Re: How often a hot girl gets approached?

Well with your topic in mind I was out the entire day and I only saw one ballsy approach done by some 15 year old teenager. He was rejected but kept his composure like a champ. This was during the day. Otherwise I saw no approaches or openers happening. Only corny friendlylike opening, which makes m...
by DarkKnight
Sun Feb 17, 2019 3:42 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How often a hot girl gets approached?
Replies: 6
Views: 232

Re: How often a hot girl gets approached?

Sizing up the competition :D? It depends on what you call an approach. Most guys try to be "friends" anyway so I would not even count them. Also you can discount the guys with terrible fundamentals which is rather common. I think a hot girl being approach by a real lover type guy is not th...
by DarkKnight
Tue Feb 12, 2019 7:10 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: How often a hot girl gets approached?
Replies: 6
Views: 232
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