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Re: Misinterpretation during flirting

I just learned about this the other day in fact. Haven't used it yet!
by ElderPrice
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:02 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Misinterpretation during flirting
Replies: 3
Views: 64

Re: Is day game BS ... am I missing something ??

Before doubting day game, you should consider that you're not even hitting the right places. Don't go checking places out because someone on the internet put it on a list. If cute girls aren't at your city's parks and museums, then stop going there and find where they do go. If you live in a big cit...
by ElderPrice
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:01 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Is day game BS ... am I missing something ??
Replies: 10
Views: 115

Re: Walking away from a successful career so you can get laid more.

You're right that some jobs make it easier to get laid than others, but I've never heard of someone needing to leave their career to get laid. If you're working at a job that consumes so many hours for so many years of your life that you never have any free time to do anything, let alone meet girls,...
by ElderPrice
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:43 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Walking away from a successful career so you can get laid more.
Replies: 1
Views: 23

Re: Only Big Girla

So your question is why are you matching with undesirables? Your photos aren't attractive enough. That's why. Notice I didn't say you aren't attractive enough - I said your photos aren't. Get better photos.
by ElderPrice
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:29 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Only Big Girla
Replies: 3
Views: 29

Re: Are you better off going out on a weekday than a weekend to pull?

Sounds like you're asking the old question of Day Game vs. Night Game which is a huge topic. The gist of it: Day game offers fewer women to meet, but it's "easier" to game them since their guard is down and they'll be impressed by your balls when you approach. Night game offers far more wo...
by ElderPrice
Thu Aug 08, 2019 12:44 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are you better off going out on a weekday than a weekend to pull?
Replies: 9
Views: 141

Re: Are People Alive Between 12 - 5 PM?

Yeah that's a tough time of day. However, 12 - 1 is lunch time, so you should be able to see some girls come out of the woodwork for lunch. If that was the only time I was free, here's what I would consider trying: - Assuming you workout, try checking out different gyms. Maybe there's a good one nea...
by ElderPrice
Wed Aug 07, 2019 12:29 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are People Alive Between 12 - 5 PM?
Replies: 6
Views: 118

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

8/1/19 New game plan I've been thinking a lot lately about my interactions with girls over the past few months. It's been a while since I actually sat and analyzed and thought about them to try and improve them. While I have definitely done better getting numbers, getting dates, and keeping girls in...
by ElderPrice
Fri Aug 02, 2019 12:16 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: Addressing Insecurities and Getting Better with Women

Hey guys, In light of recent events and in general, I want to address something - specifically, insecurities and issues guys may also be facing that I know I am that are holding me back. I've posted something very similar in my journal but I want to hear what your guys' thoughts are and how you hav...
by ElderPrice
Thu Aug 01, 2019 11:47 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Addressing Insecurities and Getting Better with Women
Replies: 3
Views: 123

Re: Does game actually work for ugly guys? Tell personal experience please

Of course it does. You know the phrase "actions speak louder than words"? You know what else actions speak louder than? Looks! Next time you're at a club or something, actually take a moment to LOOK at what you see. 100% of the time the guys doing the best with girls there are ACTING a cer...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jul 27, 2019 9:54 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Does game actually work for ugly guys? Tell personal experience please
Replies: 6
Views: 204

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

7/27/19 Not much of an update Haven't posted in over a month unfortunately because I don't have much of an update. The girls I've been working on have fizzled away because I just couldn't make sex happen. That part has definitely been the most challenging part for me. Anyway, here's what I'm at/what...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jul 27, 2019 9:45 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

And to be clear, I was NOT saying not to have a strong desire to fuck women. When I talk about not being a “taker” that means not needing women to treat your depression or to fill a void in your soul. One should pursue women to make their great lives better, not to find their cure to depression. Go...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jun 15, 2019 9:20 pm
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: Beginners advice: move slow or fast?

Never force. 'Move fast' just means don't dilly dally. If she's ready for more, then go. If not, then hold until she is. I don't really have a problem with that (anymore!), I just have a hard time "reading" whether she's ready, and for what exactly. Last time I fucked up (see my FU report...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jun 15, 2019 9:07 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Beginners advice: move slow or fast?
Replies: 6
Views: 291

Re: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

That raises the question of what the end game of Seduction is. It is probably a personal question. For me, it has to be more than just increasing laycount ad eternam. I view it as getting better relationships, with better girls, with terms more favorable to the man. I imagine there's arguably two e...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jun 15, 2019 8:28 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71421

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

@ zappbrannigan & EP: My take on the mentality shift is that itʼs really about outcome independence.  You need to truly not care if you lay this particular girl or not, because you know if itʼs not her, itʼll be a next one. To get there, you need to eliminate any trace of the “Iʼm a loser whoʼs...
by ElderPrice
Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:47 pm
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

Wow, that giving/taking mindset shift sounds amazing (and quite applicable to my situation too)! Was all it took just a conscious decision to start using this new mindset or did you develop it somehow? I stumbled across an RSD video that talked about it then just implemented it. For me it was just ...
by ElderPrice
Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:16 pm
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Dude! What awesome progress, this is inspiring. It is definitely a mental issue. I had the same problem when I lost mine, luckily she was patient and we tried again the next morning - sounds like you've found someone similar. I didn't get much sleep at all that night because I was so stressed about...
by ElderPrice
Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:14 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

zapp - Thank you so much! Your comment made my day! I'm glad my hijinks can be helpful for others. And yes, I promise you, if I can get here - a short, balding virgin covered in acne scars - then anyone can! Make every step of the process fun for you and you'll get there faster than you'd expect! I...
by ElderPrice
Thu Jun 13, 2019 11:44 pm
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: Beginners advice: move slow or fast?

Never force. 'Move fast' just means don't dilly dally. If she's ready for more, then go. If not, then hold until she is. In my opinion, Chase says 'move fast' to pound preconceieved dating norms out of our noob heads. So if you're on a first date with a girl and she's giving you those 'fuck me' eyes...
by ElderPrice
Thu Jun 13, 2019 12:55 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Beginners advice: move slow or fast?
Replies: 6
Views: 291

Re: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

Hey, The girls who say they don't want kids today may change their minds when they get closer to 30 years old. But yeah, that was big lines thinking. There are certainly exploitable loopholes. For instance, I could go for girls in the range 23 to 27 y.o. (they still have time before the kids alarm ...
by ElderPrice
Thu Jun 13, 2019 12:44 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71421

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

Thank you everyone! Seppuku - I look at porn very rarely now a days, meaning like in the past 3-6 months. I'm doing better with girls, and as a result I'm getting too busy and too tired to want to watch! So that's good. Masturbating isn't really out of the ordinary.. maybe once or twice a week. But ...
by ElderPrice
Thu Jun 13, 2019 12:29 am
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

What about going for a young GF who definitely does not want kids or physically can't have any? I know that would be hard to find, but would that be another option for you?
by ElderPrice
Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:36 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71421

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

6/11/19 @#$% Had an opportunity to lose my virginity last night. Dick refused to work. I posted on the Beginner board for feedback: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=20816 It was the same girl from the previous post. The one who let me do some things but resisted going all the wa...
by ElderPrice
Wed Jun 12, 2019 1:14 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

I had an opportunity to lose my virginity last night. Everything was going as planned but then Jr. Elder just did not want to cooperate. I think I know the problem, but I still would appreciate if anyone has any tips. Jr. Elder has two problems. 1. He is super sensitive before 'releasing the first l...
by ElderPrice
Wed Jun 12, 2019 12:58 am
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 366

Re: I am starting to lose faith in this whole game concept. is it worth it?

Thats good advice I appreciate that. I'm not against game, but rather some advice that both my sister and my parent's gave given me doesn't seem to apply for them. My sister would hate being approached by guys, then again, never once said how awsome any of those guys are. So she thinks its weird. M...
by ElderPrice
Sat Jun 08, 2019 8:43 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: I am starting to lose faith in this whole game concept. is it worth it?
Replies: 17
Views: 675

Re: I am starting to lose faith in this whole game concept. is it worth it?

Wait, what's your actual question? Your parents obviously don't know what they're talking about. Who do you think knows more about getting good with women? Professional coaches who've gamed for a decade+ and have coached thousands of clients, or your parents who by comparison know literally zero on ...
by ElderPrice
Fri Jun 07, 2019 11:38 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: I am starting to lose faith in this whole game concept. is it worth it?
Replies: 17
Views: 675

Re: FR: My Sobering and Interesting New Life Experience

Good for you for trying something new! A couple thoughts: - I'm pretty sure dance nights should be treated as social circle game, not cold approach. When you meet someone there, they always assume there's a chance that you both can come out to dance night again and see each other again. Thus, the ru...
by ElderPrice
Wed Jun 05, 2019 9:39 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: My Sobering and Interesting New Life Experience
Replies: 2
Views: 186

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Thanks again for the tips, guys! Please understand that even though we're having a fantastic discussion here...... this last month or two have been the best dating months of my life and I'm absolutely loving the progress I'm making! I don't know if we'll ever be able to say concretely what did it, b...
by ElderPrice
Wed Jun 05, 2019 8:06 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Phoenix, thank you again for another amazing reply! Seemingly Interested Girls - I understand and agree with all the concepts you're saying here. I promise you my hopes aren't up. If these were super hot girls... maybe... lol. But they're not at that level. Regardless, I'm treating these girls like ...
by ElderPrice
Thu May 30, 2019 7:40 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: 29 Year Old Virgin (I need help!)

I really want to help you, and I'm sure lots of people here want to help you, but you need to show more that you're trying to help yourself. Nobody here is going to answer "how do I talk to women?" because it's such an in-depth subject and this site already has countless, free articles on ...
by ElderPrice
Wed May 29, 2019 11:33 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: 29 Year Old Virgin (I need help!)
Replies: 4
Views: 170

Re: Can y’all help me past this sticking point!?

Your post was a little hard to follow for me. So what are you saying your problem is? You can easily get numbers but then they just don't come out on dates with you? What dates are you proposing? Coffee? Drinks? Just out of curiosity, have you tried asking these girls out on something OTHER THAN a d...
by ElderPrice
Wed May 29, 2019 9:34 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Can y’all help me past this sticking point!?
Replies: 48
Views: 1039

Re: Another newbie

Nice job man! Great start, and I wish you the best! Be sure to keep a journal and post often and you'll get a ton of help!
by ElderPrice
Wed May 29, 2019 9:16 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Another newbie
Replies: 3
Views: 218

Re: How do you know when to persist

I never thought of persisting as applying to chatting/texting/trying to arrange a date. In those circumstances it can easily come across as weird or needy. Some examples of what I think persisting is properly referring to: - You ask a girl to dance. She has a big smile on her face but she declines. ...
by ElderPrice
Wed May 29, 2019 9:14 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How do you know when to persist
Replies: 4
Views: 176

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Amazing responses again. Thank you all! Now for another round of my epic replies. I think I'll respond to certain points, then reply with my overall thoughts in order to re-set the conversation. Otherwise this is going to get very hard to follow since a lot of different points are being raised. Sepp...
by ElderPrice
Fri May 24, 2019 10:42 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: 34 year old virgin geek social retard's journey

Yep, go ahead and journal your progress, no matter how fast or slow you take it. Welcome to the boards!
by ElderPrice
Fri May 24, 2019 8:48 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: 34 year old virgin geek social retard's journey
Replies: 2
Views: 107

Re: Am I cursed or just a dumbass?

Sounds like you're familiar with all the material out there. So you've therefore heard of Outer Game vs. Inner Game, correct? I'm no expert, but in my opinion your post SCREAMS that odds are you've got the outer game down, but are quite lacking in inner game. You MUST get those negative thoughts cl...
by ElderPrice
Fri May 24, 2019 8:46 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Am I cursed or just a dumbass?
Replies: 5
Views: 288

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

My reply for you, Seppuku: it probably means that there is a big disconnect between what she was expecting when she accepted the date, and what she ultimately gets. What exactly were her expectations when she accepted? That is dependent on the underlying frame at the time you asked her out. When you...
by ElderPrice
Thu May 23, 2019 1:44 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Thanks guys for the additional thoughts. Responses below. Phoenix, this is for you. I'll do a separate post responding to Seppuku. This is a bit of a guess, but Iʼm thinking here that you might possibly need either (i) stronger frame, or (ii) better excuses. Hmmm. Regarding excuses, do you have an e...
by ElderPrice
Thu May 23, 2019 12:01 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Thank you as always Seppuku! Hopefully my responses below can shed some light on this. About Girl 2. " She just wasn't there to fuck." How do you know that? I tell you something. Most of my dates do not know they're here to fuck when they come on a date with me. Yet, once I start to show t...
by ElderPrice
Tue May 21, 2019 10:02 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Girls 1 and 2 just werenʼt showing any standard signs of interest — not during the date. Before the dates they were CLEARLY interested over text, but during the dates they showed little signs of life. And Iʼve tried inviting girls (to their) home with whatever excuse. It never works. Theyʼre never ...
by ElderPrice
Mon May 20, 2019 9:35 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Hey EP, Good to hear thereʼs progress. A few thoughts on your last few entries: 1 Kissing. Iʼd stay away from it entirely at least until sex is imminent. Some guys seem to have some luck with it, but to me it seems like it shows your cards and defuses tension too much. The last girl I had over and ...
by ElderPrice
Wed May 15, 2019 2:06 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

5/14/19 Not much of a follow up, but some good things from this past weekend. To follow up on the previous girls, I texted Girl 1 asking if she had a great mother's day. No response. She's definitely a goner. Girl 2 has been responding to my texts, but she's way colder than before our date. Now she'...
by ElderPrice
Tue May 14, 2019 9:56 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

5/8/19 Got a few dates, nothing happened. Not sure where they stand ATM. Haven't posted in a bit mainly because I haven't had much news to report. The main thing that happened is that this past weekend I had 3 dates... my first dates since January. Let me refer to the previous weeks as Week 1, Week ...
by ElderPrice
Thu May 09, 2019 12:38 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: Dating app chicks disappearing

Not an expert here. Just curious, have you tried being very very fast and direct? I tried to move after getting the first 6 messages out the way. I tried not to move too fast because I don't think it'll work if I ask too quick. What if you tried it on the next 10 girls just to see what happens? Wil...
by ElderPrice
Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:17 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Dating app chicks disappearing
Replies: 17
Views: 382

Re: Dating app chicks disappearing

Sub-Zero wrote:
ElderPrice wrote:Not an expert here. Just curious, have you tried being very very fast and direct?


I tried to move after getting the first 6 messages out the way.

I tried not to move too fast because I don't think it'll work if I ask too quick.

What if you tried it on the next 10 girls just to see what happens?
by ElderPrice
Wed Apr 24, 2019 11:32 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Dating app chicks disappearing
Replies: 17
Views: 382

Re: Dating app chicks disappearing

Not an expert here. Just curious, have you tried being very very fast and direct?
by ElderPrice
Wed Apr 24, 2019 7:41 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Dating app chicks disappearing
Replies: 17
Views: 382

Re: Am I cursed or just a dumbass?

Sounds like you're familiar with all the material out there. So you've therefore heard of Outer Game vs. Inner Game, correct? I'm no expert, but in my opinion your post SCREAMS that odds are you've got the outer game down, but are quite lacking in inner game. You MUST get those negative thoughts cle...
by ElderPrice
Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:40 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Am I cursed or just a dumbass?
Replies: 5
Views: 288

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

4/21/19 Good progress. New experience. Could have gotten laid, but very rough logistics. Same club as last Saturday. Going into the night, my only goal was to try and push the envelope as far as new experiences go. Actually if I had a specific goal, I figured it would be that in addition to opening ...
by ElderPrice
Sun Apr 21, 2019 7:44 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 138
Views: 3844

Re: How to check out girls?

Not the dumbest question. I'd say the #1 thing to keep in mind is that, generally speaking, it becomes creepy when you notice a girl and DON'T act. And that makes sense, right? If a healthy man sees a woman he likes, he approaches and finds out whether she's interested or not. If she is, he can begi...
by ElderPrice
Wed Apr 17, 2019 8:35 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How to check out girls?
Replies: 3
Views: 124

Re: Possible to start as a loner

Not entirely sure what you're asking so let's start with this: What do you want?
by ElderPrice
Wed Apr 17, 2019 8:24 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Possible to start as a loner
Replies: 5
Views: 247

Re: Need help getting confidence with women

Nice job my man! Sounds like a great outing to me! Is going out alone really that difficult for you? It sounds like all your interactions from that night occurred when you were AWAY from your female friend. You were interacting with new girls ALONE! But regardless, go at your own pace. If that's too...
by ElderPrice
Mon Apr 15, 2019 10:39 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Need help getting confidence with women
Replies: 21
Views: 490
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