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Re: How do u open at the beach?

Thanks Zapp,

That’s just what I needed, your definitely right about the girls feeling exposed and I’d heard this before aswell. I think I was just being a pussy who need some inspiration, that’s all. Thanks for the website.
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jul 21, 2019 10:43 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How do u open at the beach?
Replies: 3
Views: 125

How do u open at the beach?

I have extremely minimal success with cold approach, and by that I mean I have had maybe a1 date that didn’t really result in anything from it. That being said, I don’t cold approach very often so I’m not very good at it. What seems like the hardest pet to me and what always has is the open. From th...
by Start_ed_young
Sat Jul 20, 2019 4:38 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: How do u open at the beach?
Replies: 3
Views: 125

Re: Direct openers for good looking guys and indirect for uglier guys?

Hmmmm, lets see. You pose some good points and you are on the right track... but I would say it’s less about looks and more about value and being able to frame the interaction in a way that makes you seem slightly (slightly because you want to remain attainable) higher value than the woman you appro...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Jul 15, 2019 3:34 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Direct openers for good looking guys and indirect for uglier guys?
Replies: 2
Views: 150

How can you get an aloof girl to start investing more?

So the scenario is this: Let’s say you get a bit out on a date and she seems interested before hand. The two of you meet and she’s actually somewhat closed off and/or cold towards you a little bit. She gives some body language cues that she is interested but at the same time she seems closed off. Li...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Jul 15, 2019 2:30 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How can you get an aloof girl to start investing more?
Replies: 1
Views: 43

Re: LR: first kiss leads to first lay

Hey Klimax, I appreciate your feedback. I’ll be brief but I’d like to ask a few follow up questions if u don’t mind 1. What exactly about the sexual escalation process was “not good” what should I have done differently or what specifically was bad about (I mean I’m not surprised bc I never even kiss...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Jul 15, 2019 1:56 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: LR: first kiss leads to first lay
Replies: 2
Views: 194

LR: first kiss leads to first lay

This all happened a while ago and I’ve been meaning to write this for a while, but I’m proud to write the first LR, and I have a lot of questions because of it and everything that has happened between them and now. The story starts May 18 to give u an idea of time frame. It was a second date lay sor...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jul 14, 2019 2:18 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: LR: first kiss leads to first lay
Replies: 2
Views: 194

How do u find a suitable sex location for your dates when you live with parents.

What’s up guys! I have been absent from the boards for a while because I have either been very busy lately or when I had the time couldn’t get myself to sit down and write. I have a lot of things to post so I’m hoping I can get caught up this week. Anyway, to my question. This hasn’t really been an ...
by Start_ed_young
Sat Jun 01, 2019 1:41 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How do u find a suitable sex location for your dates when you live with parents.
Replies: 1
Views: 90

Re: Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?

Hey fog, (DISCLAIMER) can probably skip the dialogues if you want, but thought I’d include all details. I summarize what I mean by go down in flames more clearly at the very end. And including an example where it Andrew well may have been pointless, especially because I don’t even know if it was dir...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jan 13, 2019 10:22 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?
Replies: 6
Views: 219

Re: Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?

Hey ElderPrice, Thanks for the compliment ( I wrote this up really fast and didn’t read it before posting so I thought my orginization would be out of wack lol) But to get to the point, in this post I was only referring to “approach” as talking to strangers you see throughout your day. I did mention...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jan 13, 2019 5:20 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?
Replies: 6
Views: 219

Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?

It appears every time I approached girls my age and open directly with a general compliment of her appearance like “I thought you were cute, and wanted to meet you,” it goes down in flames. I don’t know if it’s jut unlucky and the girls I approach this way are the girls that just so happen to be un ...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jan 13, 2019 3:27 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Why is a direct approach so ineffective for me?
Replies: 6
Views: 219

Re: Onedate concerns and questions

Hey thanks space, You guessed correctly on me being American, and yes I can purchase a visa gift card from the local grocery store right down the street I was wondering if a visa gift card would work to purchase the onesdat system. It should right? It just takes the place of a credit card far as I k...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Dec 10, 2018 10:36 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Onedate concerns and questions
Replies: 3
Views: 224

Onedate concerns and questions

What’s up GC, After being dormant from the site for a while and attempting to establish my presense at my school in a low effort way, I have largely come up unsuccessful and unsatisfied. The one date system seems it would offer a nice solution. However I do have some concerns about buying, but there...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Dec 09, 2018 4:19 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Onedate concerns and questions
Replies: 3
Views: 224

I was escelatong via text and... she fell asleep!

This happens too often, I’m almost to the part where the girl would send me nudes and I’d suggest a meet up, but then I don’t respond for a little too long and she goes to sleep. I guess I need to respond quickly whilst the iron is hot. But, how do I keep it up the next day where we could meet up to...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Oct 01, 2018 12:49 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: I was escelatong via text and... she fell asleep!
Replies: 0
Views: 65

How do you become well known in a large social circle such as highschool?

Not starting from square one here... but since moving up to highschool from junior high, it seems the majority of my rep has been diluted. I’m still at very least loosely friends with everybody popular in my grade, but the older ones may not know of me as-well. At least that’s the vibe I’m getting. ...
by Start_ed_young
Wed Sep 12, 2018 4:18 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How do you become well known in a large social circle such as highschool?
Replies: 3
Views: 197

Re: FR: “are you 2 sisters?” Hilton Head Island

Hey FT, Apologies for the slow reply, I can’t claim to be an expert on the area, but I can tell you this much: I’ve heard from multiple people there that travel to a lot of beaches that it is their favorite. My parents seem to be impressed with the place There are lots of... uh... like mini cruises ...
by Start_ed_young
Fri Sep 07, 2018 4:18 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: “are you 2 sisters?” Hilton Head Island
Replies: 4
Views: 347

Re: Clueless and new to snapchat

It’s probably not gonna hurt if you just use the text feature, but it’s probably better to use pictures. Only using the text feature may come off as insecure/socially awkward (just cuz it’s not what most people do.) when you say taking selfies just feels unnatural, it’s probably because your doing i...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Aug 13, 2018 4:14 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Clueless and new to snapchat
Replies: 1
Views: 94

Reasons a girl would avoid eye contact?

Recently I’ve started talking to this new girl at my school. She’s really attractive but she would be a lot more attractive I’ve she held strong eye contact while talking. Is there a way to get her to do this? What are some reasons she would look me in the eyes while talking. She seems kinda shy, sh...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Aug 12, 2018 9:04 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Reasons a girl would avoid eye contact?
Replies: 2
Views: 115

FR: not what I’m used to...

Met up with these two girls at the hotel lounge pool. Jut by lookin at them I could tell they weren’t my usual type of people let alone girls. One had a lot of piercings (not in to it) but the other was friends with her but had a KILLER body. I could tell they were probably more trashy or “street” o...
by Start_ed_young
Tue Jul 24, 2018 10:04 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: not what I’m used to...
Replies: 1
Views: 145

Re: FR: starting to see the bigger picture, older than I think

Thanks boys, FT, By using the people who are paid to be nice to you, does that mean to use them as preselection and whatnot, and yes I get that I have to create a DOPE (nice acronym btw) and lastly where does that statistic of mindset changing 4 tones in the next ten years come from, sounds accurate...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:22 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: starting to see the bigger picture, older than I think
Replies: 4
Views: 317

FR: “are you 2 sisters?” Hilton Head Island

Hey guys, first of all if anyone happens to be in Hilton Head or at least close, plz plz HMU for wingman. Now here is the approach I have questions about. I asked 2 very attractive girls if they were sisters she said no are you? In a bitchy tone, and I kinda laughed and said huh? And she realized wh...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jul 22, 2018 3:17 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: “are you 2 sisters?” Hilton Head Island
Replies: 4
Views: 347

Re: Any insight into approaching girls with family?

Thanks guys! Geez, that’s something I was thinking of experimenting with, opening the dad. The idea of it does make sense and all, I just for some reason always assume the older guy she with has no relation and then he turns around and says “go on...” and I kinda talk to her with him watching then w...
by Start_ed_young
Sun Jul 22, 2018 3:11 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Any insight into approaching girls with family?
Replies: 3
Views: 530

FR: starting to see the bigger picture, older than I think

Most important thing I learned is I appear much older than I o am to girls. This probably causes the odds of me getting with girls my age fr m cold approach to lower since I’d be seen as more intimidating and less attainable. I was very impressed at the beginning of the day. the girls I saw that wer...
by Start_ed_young
Fri Jul 13, 2018 11:50 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: FR: starting to see the bigger picture, older than I think
Replies: 4
Views: 317

Any insight into approaching girls with family?

Meaning when you colds approach, when a girls is with her parents any different lies you’d use, or any way to diffuse brothers or fathers? Any particular lines you’d use to open? Any way you could use this situation to advantage? Rn I’m at a college orientation for my brother, and never before have ...
by Start_ed_young
Fri Jul 13, 2018 8:55 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Any insight into approaching girls with family?
Replies: 3
Views: 530

Fr: amusement park approaches with new wingman

I went to an amusement park on a little road trip with three friends and one of their parents. The following is any seduction related content. So it begins when me and my eventual “new wingman” decide we are going to flirt with and approach as many attractive girls as we can, we at the water park po...
by Start_ed_young
Wed Jul 11, 2018 10:42 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: Fr: amusement park approaches with new wingman
Replies: 0
Views: 89

She fell asleep before completing logistics, how to reinitiate?

About a month ago a girl invited me to her friends house she was at at 1:00 am. Sent 2 ;) ;) emojis. I think we all know what that means. I thought about not coming then I said, yeah yeah, I’ll be in my way. She said not yet, he parents are awake. I said, okay. 1 hr later Me: We still ... The next m...
by Start_ed_young
Tue Jun 26, 2018 10:32 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: She fell asleep before completing logistics, how to reinitiate?
Replies: 1
Views: 158

I scared away a girl who used to have a huge crush on me , Recover??

Hey guys, Basically there was this girl who really liked me (supposedly) a lot, then I asked her out, we never went out, and now I put her on pause and she hasn’t reached out. Background Info and details below. Question is in the last sentence. Also keep in mind I wouldn’t like to lose her as a frie...
by Start_ed_young
Tue Jun 26, 2018 10:19 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: I scared away a girl who used to have a huge crush on me , Recover??
Replies: 1
Views: 122

When to cold approach?

Do you cold approach all women who ar good enough UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE? I’ve been confused on wether you should only approach girls who give you signals or if you should approach all girls you are attracted to. Also confused on if there is any situation where shouldn’t approach or it is impossible...
by Start_ed_young
Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:27 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: When to cold approach?
Replies: 3
Views: 312

Re: Cold approach from a distance

If you always go indirect in this circumstance, you are in control as to where you want to frame before a premise has been set. For instance, I you ask a girl for directions as your opener and they turn out to ugly or underage, you can always leave as if that were the only reason for your interaction.
by Start_ed_young
Mon Jun 18, 2018 6:09 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Cold approach from a distance
Replies: 2
Views: 200

Re: Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w g

Thanks again big D! With calibration, I figured as much. Makes sense. However, this girl is from your HS, right? I'm assuming you can see her pretty much every day, so there's really no need to text about anything other than logistics. This is a conversation that is much better to have in real life....
by Start_ed_young
Fri Jun 01, 2018 9:48 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w guys”
Replies: 7
Views: 381

Re: What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???

Thanks Fuck This,

Good article. Pretty accurately explains the situation above. Her slapping my ass and then stating aloud that she did so, was a prime example of silly and cute, and I believe my reactions both times were suitable. Nice read

Cheers,
Young
by Start_ed_young
Thu May 31, 2018 2:54 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???
Replies: 4
Views: 331

Re: What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???

I guess I kinda got her with a chase frame the first time, no? The second time I just kinda surprised her with a statement she didn’t expect. Whatever it may be, a week later she invited me over around 2:00am with heavy sexual implications. It ended up not working out bc I couldn’t go bc the parents...
by Start_ed_young
Thu May 31, 2018 5:57 am
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???
Replies: 4
Views: 331

What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???

This happened a few weeks ago when I was with 2 other guys and two girls. Both the girls were really attracted to me at the time. K and Bell. K is more outgoing and slutty, bell is shy and reserved.Bell wouldn’t really talk to me much that night but K just kept trying to make me uncomfortable Exampl...
by Start_ed_young
Wed May 30, 2018 8:36 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: What do you do if a girl slaps your ass with no context???
Replies: 4
Views: 331

Re: Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w g

Thank you so much for you input Big Daddy and Michael, After reading the post, it didn’t go quite as bad as the way I recollected it made it seem, I did offer some reassurance/comfort, but not really enough I guess. Secondly, my major set back that threw me off here was that it was stuff over the ph...
by Start_ed_young
Wed May 30, 2018 8:15 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w guys”
Replies: 7
Views: 381

Re: Road to GM

Field report: DAMN NEAR HAD MY FIRST LAY!! a girl from my school was at a friends house in my neighborhood, I snap chatted her just a random picture to see if she’d see anything, after after 3 times I said, Me: “I see your in the neighbor hood?” Her, “yea I’m with a friend.” Me:: “well congratu-fuck...
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 28, 2018 2:34 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Road to GM
Replies: 2
Views: 218

Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w guys”

What does this mean?? I told her to tell me a day and time frame she was free so we could work something out. Earlier in the week she gave me the “sorry I’m busy 24/7 the rest of my life speech” which I knew was bs for various reasons. When I asked her to tell me when she was free she admitted that ...
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 28, 2018 1:59 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Has a girl every told you she won’t go out with you bc “akward/shy alone w guys”
Replies: 7
Views: 381

Re: There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for mo

I told her she could meet me at the library, and after we could walk around grab something to eat and talk. She said she was sorry she couldn’t because she was at a friends house and her parents weren’t home. I said Ight and she said sorry again. Since she didn’t say anything like, “maybe another ti...
by Start_ed_young
Tue May 22, 2018 12:48 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for months
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Re: There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for mo

Thanks Cacc, I guess that’s a common then with me recently, I never know when to stop playing games. I just hit her up to see if she wanted to go somewhere with me and she said yeah okay. So hey, maybe that’s something, only problem is I have not the slightest clue what to do. But yeah, the opporitu...
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 21, 2018 8:57 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for months
Replies: 5
Views: 274

There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for months

Hey guys, Recently my high school just got out for summer break and I’ve ran into a bit of an interesting situation.there is this one girl who I heard was crazy about me approximately 4 months ago. She never said much to me.but when she did she was kind of dismissive.(like ice queen sort of stuff) t...
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 21, 2018 4:56 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: There is this girl from my social circle that has been crazy about me for months
Replies: 5
Views: 274

Re: Fr: Approach after softball game

Hey Pheonix Thanks for all your help on this one. I definitely fucked this one up which is unfortunate. Took me a few days to get over it. Important thing is... I got over it. It was a strange thing though, with her after i was now obviously rejected I was attracted to any of the girls at my school ...
by Start_ed_young
Sun May 20, 2018 1:40 pm
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: Fr: Approach after softball game
Replies: 7
Views: 534

Re: PICKING UP GIRLS WITH NEGS (INFIELD VIDEO)

Yea I did a bit more research on this and that appears to be the case. Use is to disqualify the girl and have her qualify her way back into your favor. Basically show that just cause she pretty she ain’t nothing special, until she proves she something special.
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 14, 2018 10:22 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: PICKING UP GIRLS WITH NEGS (INFIELD VIDEO)
Replies: 6
Views: 747

Re: How the fuck am I supposed to get laid when I don’t have my own car or place

Thanks for sharing Lucky, Young, you can literally meet girls anywhere the mall, your school, some random cafe the possibilities are limitless I only wish this was the case, however, it is far from it. It is blatantly obvious that you can meet girls at school. But like Fuck This says, he prefers onl...
by Start_ed_young
Sun May 13, 2018 2:01 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How the fuck am I supposed to get laid when I don’t have my own car or place??
Replies: 4
Views: 343

How the fuck am I supposed to get laid when I don’t have my own car or place??

(Heads up, first few paragraphs are a bit of a rant) Being 15 in the US, fucking sucks. PERIOD. My whole life age 0-11 all I was was my parents’ child. All I knew was there morals, their religion,and their philosophies. I had to rely on them for fucking EVERYTHING. I didn’t have have choices, they w...
by Start_ed_young
Sat May 12, 2018 10:01 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How the fuck am I supposed to get laid when I don’t have my own car or place??
Replies: 4
Views: 343

Re: Getting past approach anxiety and depression

Exactly!

Cold showers= Cold approaches my friend

Once you get done with exams give it a shot and you’ll be approaching women habitually.

Happy hunting,
Young
by Start_ed_young
Sat May 12, 2018 7:01 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Getting past approach anxiety and depression
Replies: 7
Views: 873

Re: Oh Pry's guide on how to have success on Tinder and Bumble.

I’m 15 and I started tinder yesterday, before reading this guide. I used only the four pictures I have of myself on my phone. I was very picky with my swipes and got 2 matches last night, I have 25 likes at the moment. I believe if I tried to get some quality pictures, I would be able to do pretty w...
by Start_ed_young
Thu May 10, 2018 4:53 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Oh Pry's guide on how to have success on Tinder and Bumble.
Replies: 12
Views: 1858

Re: What should you do if you see some girls from your social circle while on a

Thanks ice cream, After I posted this, I kind of figured as much, but I could still see it happening. Just wondering if there were any ways you use this situation as a, catalyst, shall we say, for the interaction. Cause, I mean it’s practically preselected in a bottle, but is preselection only for a...
by Start_ed_young
Tue May 08, 2018 11:36 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: What should you do if you see some girls from your social circle while on a date
Replies: 3
Views: 249

Re: Overcoming the Fear of Cold Approaching

Hey wbpua, There is a lot of stuff on this website protaining to approach anxiety. I’ve put what worked for me on a thread recently here is a link: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=18333 My response In there is basically about how you can use cold shawers to rewire you mind to s...
by Start_ed_young
Tue May 08, 2018 11:24 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Overcoming the Fear of Cold Approaching
Replies: 2
Views: 195

What should you do if you see some girls from your social circle while on a date

Not anything I’ve ran into personally, but I was just thinking about places I would meet a girl at near me for a date, and a few of them I could imagine bumping into a group of girls from my school that know me. Would you just try to ignore their presence if they so happened to be I. The same place?...
by Start_ed_young
Tue May 08, 2018 11:00 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: What should you do if you see some girls from your social circle while on a date
Replies: 3
Views: 249

Re: PICKING UP GIRLS WITH NEGS (INFIELD VIDEO)

Does this only work on ugly girls?
by Start_ed_young
Mon May 07, 2018 3:34 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: PICKING UP GIRLS WITH NEGS (INFIELD VIDEO)
Replies: 6
Views: 747
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