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Re: Don't understand how this didn't send her running?

Dude's!! Am hoping ya can shed some light on this cause am starting to think my town is backwards. A was out in a club with a friend who was frustrated with a girl he went on a date with ghosting him. He seen her out an started texting her from a emotional an needy place. When he shown me the messa...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:36 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Don't understand how this didn't send her running?
Replies: 6
Views: 85

Re: Flattered but uninterested girls?

It's your fundamentals. The top guys on here are good looking. That's required for being successful with street stops, it seems. I had the exact same issue and am going to stop doing street stops because there doesn't seem to be a way around it. If you get in front of her and stop her properly (e.g....
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Aug 31, 2019 6:09 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Flattered but uninterested girls?
Replies: 8
Views: 148

Re: What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?

Muscles do work, well at least for me, girls always talk about my muscles any chance they get. But if you have that covered and it’s not working, then yeah do more approaches and work on your vibe. The only way to work on that without approaching, is to tell yourself that you’re the prize, you have...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Aug 19, 2019 1:25 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?
Replies: 6
Views: 156

Re: What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?

Well I’m not an ugly guy, but from what I have seen from other guys that girls called ugly but they might give him a chance is his confidence. These guys know they have to sometimes work twice as hard, but they focused more on their attitudes or something that girls would like. Like in school they ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:16 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?
Replies: 6
Views: 156

What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?

Hi GC community. I'm an ugly guy and I am having trouble. I know that the main attraction factor is in a guy's looks. A woman is attracted to a guy or not (https://www.girlschase.com/content/attraction-either-there-or-it-isnt) and that is set in stone from the outset (https://www.girlschase.com/cont...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Aug 17, 2019 4:25 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: What are some game and seduction techniques for uglier guys?
Replies: 6
Views: 156

Re: Does game actually work for ugly guys? Tell personal experience please

From my experiences, no. The examples of seducers on GC are all of good looking guys with great fundamentals. It's the same with any online gurus on competing websites. Cold approach is actually a worse way than online dating to meet ladies for ugly guys. That's really saying something. Online, he c...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Jul 28, 2019 4:21 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Does game actually work for ugly guys? Tell personal experience please
Replies: 6
Views: 252

Re: the reason most men will never have success with women

inner game is the number one fundamental. without it leading, eye contact... is gonna be dificult. also i’m a 7/10. in my area i will never be the best looking guy at any venue. and i’m not the hottest match a girl is gonna get. 6ft tall, white, full head of hair over the age of 35. This makes you ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 20, 2019 6:42 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: the reason most men will never have success with women
Replies: 44
Views: 943

Re: the reason most men will never have success with women

inner game is the number one fundamental. without it leading, eye contact... is gonna be dificult. also i’m a 7/10. in my area i will never be the best looking guy at any venue. and i’m not the hottest match a girl is gonna get. 6ft tall, white, full head of hair over the age of 35. This makes you ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 20, 2019 4:09 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: the reason most men will never have success with women
Replies: 44
Views: 943

Re: the reason most men will never have success with women

The reason most men will never have success with women is due to lack of fundamentals. No amount of game will make up for being ugly/poor/dumb. And while there are measures a man can take to improve these things, a lot of them are environmentally/genetically determined to a large degree. It's reall...
by strictlyincreasing
Fri Jul 19, 2019 5:19 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: the reason most men will never have success with women
Replies: 44
Views: 943

Direct openers for good looking guys and indirect for uglier guys?

Hi guys. I'm your standard ugly guy who is in good shape, has a good career, is intelligent, good social skills etc. I'm thinking about my few experiences using direct openers and it seems to me that you screen out the women who value those things and screen in the women who are into looks and good ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 13, 2019 4:40 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Direct openers for good looking guys and indirect for uglier guys?
Replies: 2
Views: 150

Re: Do you have to be really out going to have success with girls?

i’m not very outgoing at all. but i’m really good one on one. i have managed to get all the benefits of game not only in spite of this but because of it. i’ve dated models, bartenders, high end escorts, and every other type of girl. i’ve been with all races. i became friends with a club promoter an...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 13, 2019 10:36 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Do you have to be really out going to have success with girls?
Replies: 9
Views: 184

Re: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?

gotta have eye contact....Always. No street stop will work if you ambush them. If she is not going to return eye contact then no approach will work. Once she meets your eye contact a simple smile and "Hi" creates the opportunity to talk. Let your game begin. I've had runners stop going op...
by strictlyincreasing
Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:10 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?
Replies: 14
Views: 369

Re: App Conversations

You need good fundamentals to use these apps and get dates. Hector did a video on the Girlschase Youtube channel about how he got a date within 2 or 3 very low effort texts. What Hector has, however, is top tier fundamentals. Judging by how these chats went, it looks like you, just like me, do not ...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Jul 10, 2019 12:33 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: App Conversations
Replies: 47
Views: 560

Re: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?

1. You can always increase fundamentals. :) Are you ripped/athletic body with 4% body fat? Then you can increase your fundamentals. Are your teeth perfectly straight and white? then you can increase your fundamentals. Are you rich? Increase fundamentals. Does your voice make women swoon when you ta...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Jul 10, 2019 11:09 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?
Replies: 14
Views: 369

Re: App Conversations

You need good fundamentals to use these apps and get dates. Hector did a video on the Girlschase Youtube channel about how he got a date within 2 or 3 very low effort texts. What Hector has, however, is top tier fundamentals. Judging by how these chats went, it looks like you, just like me, do not ...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Jul 10, 2019 10:55 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: App Conversations
Replies: 47
Views: 560

Re: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?

1. Increase your fundamentals :) 2. The double barrelled opener...can you just start with the second part if you think it's more impactful? 3. The compliment opener definitely works, but if you're having trouble getting them to stick around, try following up with it a small question, or just hold o...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Jul 08, 2019 5:14 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?
Replies: 14
Views: 369

Alternative to direct openers for street stops?

I've been trying some street stop approaches. That is approaching a lady who is walking along a street but is well dressed or stylish in some way and doesn't look like she is in a hurry. It has always been day time so far. The trouble that I'm having is that I have a double barreled opener and I can...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Jul 08, 2019 4:52 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Alternative to direct openers for street stops?
Replies: 14
Views: 369

Re: App Conversations

You need good fundamentals to use these apps and get dates. Hector did a video on the Girlschase Youtube channel about how he got a date within 2 or 3 very low effort texts. What Hector has, however, is top tier fundamentals. Judging by how these chats went, it looks like you, just like me, do not h...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Jul 08, 2019 4:45 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: App Conversations
Replies: 47
Views: 560

Re: How to keep your sanity while learning seduction? (soft question)

You can lessen the learning curve by becoming better at relating to people as friends. Male or Female. What this does is give you some Outcome independence because you have people who care about you and if you ARE rejected by some woman who doesn't even KNOW you, then it is her problem, not yours.....
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 06, 2019 5:23 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How to keep your sanity while learning seduction? (soft question)
Replies: 10
Views: 255

How to keep your sanity while learning seduction? (soft question)

Hi guys. This is a soft/open ended question. Do you think that a guy can realistically keep a sense of morality, values and overall mental health while learning seduction? How? For me I'm in the beginners hell phase of seduction. I've had 30+ online date FUs and now I'm learning daygame. In daygame ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jul 06, 2019 10:34 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: How to keep your sanity while learning seduction? (soft question)
Replies: 10
Views: 255

Re: Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?

Hey guys I managed to do a few approaches. It was just a matter of, thanks to a more experienced guy's advice, using meditative techniques to not give the anxiety attention and to see an approach demonstrated. One issue I was having (maybe separate question for a separate topic) is that after I del...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Jul 03, 2019 10:04 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?
Replies: 11
Views: 421

Re: Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?

Hey guys I managed to do a few approaches. It was just a matter of, thanks to a more experienced guy's advice, using meditative techniques to not give the anxiety attention and to see an approach demonstrated. One issue I was having (maybe separate question for a separate topic) is that after I deli...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Jul 01, 2019 2:04 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?
Replies: 11
Views: 421

Is cold approach a fundamentally limited method to meet certain women?

I want to learn cold approach so that I can get married and become a family man. No secrets about that. But when talking about daygame, somebody mentioned the following (almost) logical conundrum that cold approach brings about. This person told me that, in our society, there are certain women who w...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jun 22, 2019 5:10 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Is cold approach a fundamentally limited method to meet certain women?
Replies: 5
Views: 240

Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?

I’m having real trouble with approach anxiety. I don’t have social anxiety and I don’t have trouble approaching guys or people who I have met before (warm approach). But I am really having trouble getting past my sticking point with women. What seems to be happening is that I am thinking “go approac...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Jun 01, 2019 4:39 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Strong approach anxiety…how do I handle it?
Replies: 11
Views: 421

Re: Bad experience with a GC employee

Hi Chase, I want to say that I'm sorry to you and the coach. I was not happy with how the coach cut off all communication and made this post. My annoyance was with how I was about to arrange the payment method on my end and was cut off in all communication out of nowhere. I didn't like that. But you...
by strictlyincreasing
Fri Apr 12, 2019 5:39 pm
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Bad experience with a GC employee
Replies: 4
Views: 502

Bad experience with a GC employee

I was close to signing up for coaching with one of the GC coaches. I'm a big fan of the site and I only ask questions on here because I want to understand the material better. Anyway, as soon as I started questioning about the payment procedure, this coach was not happy. I was ready to pay and be co...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Apr 07, 2019 5:14 pm
 
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Bad experience with a GC employee
Replies: 4
Views: 502

Re: Help with banter vs. chase framing

Chase framing is for talking, not texting. Go and read Chase's article on texting. Asking two questions in one text is a bad idea because she can dodge one of the questions as she did here. You also told her a joke, painting her as excited for the date, after she ignored your question. That's a bad ...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Dec 26, 2018 7:02 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Help with banter vs. chase framing
Replies: 5
Views: 186

Re: Tinder Openers

On Tinder, if your fundamentals are good enough, you can send any kind of messages, eventually ask for the phone number and schedule a date. If your fundamentals are poor, no matter what message you send, you won't get enough responses to get the phone number or date setup. Don't assume that your fu...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Dec 24, 2018 12:27 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Tinder Openers
Replies: 7
Views: 310

Re: How would you improve Girls Chase?

Strictly Increasing, I would like more articles about how guys with poor fundamentals, who do not get approach invitations, can do well. Many of the GC contributors have excellent fundamentals but most people do not have those. Basically, I want more stuff for the average or below average guy who w...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Dec 17, 2018 6:15 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How would you improve Girls Chase?
Replies: 18
Views: 1351

Re: How would you improve Girls Chase?

I would like more articles about how guys with poor fundamentals, who do not get approach invitations, can do well. Many of the GC contributors have excellent fundamentals but most people do not have those. Basically, I want more stuff for the average or below average guy who wants at least average ...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Dec 15, 2018 2:37 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How would you improve Girls Chase?
Replies: 18
Views: 1351

Re: Bumble profile feedback

I think that you have the same problem that I have. Your fundamentals aren't good enough and your photos show it. I'm trying to find out if there is a way to deal with this. Yeah, fundamentals take time. I think you can focus on avenues less dependent on fundamentals. Social circle & cold appro...
by strictlyincreasing
Sat Dec 08, 2018 11:42 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Bumble profile feedback
Replies: 7
Views: 492

Re: Bumble profile feedback

I think that you have the same problem that I have. Your fundamentals aren't good enough and your photos show it. I'm trying to find out if there is a way to deal with this.
by strictlyincreasing
Thu Dec 06, 2018 6:46 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Bumble profile feedback
Replies: 7
Views: 492

Re: video of low value girl autorejecting

Wasn't this rejection rather than auto rejection?
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Dec 04, 2018 7:24 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: video of low value girl autorejecting
Replies: 11
Views: 892

Re: More info on provider game?

Too many excuses, not enough action. Read the articles about fundamentals again and work with the cards you've been dealt. This guy is bald and serves as a good inspiration, especially his talks with Zan Perrion: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheFearlessManTV/about Does this guy actually do well tho...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:18 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: More info on provider game?
Replies: 9
Views: 576

Re: More info on provider game?

Lover game has not worked. Lover game is based on fundamentals i.e. looks. Look at the GC vets and you'll see what amazing fundamentals they have. Read the FRs here and you'll see that most guys get approach invitations before approaches that lead to their lays. I am bald and my fundamentals are the...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Oct 28, 2018 2:32 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: More info on provider game?
Replies: 9
Views: 576

More info on provider game?

So I've been doing some thinking and I am quite sure now that my fundamentals and logistics aren't good enough to be a lover. I don't look like the GC veterans and I never will. I have to act now, however. I want to try to run provider game like the 40+ year old men who date hot single young women. ...
by strictlyincreasing
Thu Oct 25, 2018 5:45 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: More info on provider game?
Replies: 9
Views: 576

Re: How did you keep from feeling bitter during dry spells?

1) bedded an ugly girl. Works immediately post breakup. 2) Socialized with friends with no intention of meeting women. Take the pressure off and women approached me. 3) volunteered at events where I interacted with lots of people. I was doing something that lead to their enjoyment and they were hap...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Oct 03, 2018 4:29 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How did you keep from feeling bitter during dry spells?
Replies: 2
Views: 121

How did you keep from feeling bitter during dry spells?

Hey guys. I love the site but I've had massive long dry spells and I'm trying to fight out of them. Basically I've had around 50 dates from dating apps and only 1 has gone well. This has resulted in dry spells lasting over a year. I am currently in one. I know that my fundamentals have not been good...
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Oct 02, 2018 5:33 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: How did you keep from feeling bitter during dry spells?
Replies: 2
Views: 121

Is day game a myth?

I hope that this topic title is not taken to be insolent. I have so much respect for the GC veterans and all of the guys on here who are relentlessly working on improving themselves and their dating lives. They're an inspiration to us all, especially some of the vets who started right at the bottom ...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Sep 24, 2018 5:44 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Is day game a myth?
Replies: 2
Views: 282

Re: Approaching Women Everyday

I'm wondering the same thing. At the moment, it seems like daygame is a big myth. Well, you may find women on vacation in a particular city but if you're looking for an ambitious, independent, hardworking woman then she's obviously going to be at work during the day. On the weekends, she'll be relax...
by strictlyincreasing
Thu Sep 06, 2018 5:45 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Approaching Women Everyday
Replies: 12
Views: 711

Re: Are looks really so unimportant?

Man you've received like 50 reasons on why you should just cold approach and a bunch of advice on how to look better. All I read from you is that your not their type bla bla. I don't want to be harsh on you, but you seem to come here searching for validation of your self-inflicted negativity. You a...
by strictlyincreasing
Mon Aug 27, 2018 6:02 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Re: Are looks really so unimportant?

The first guy would look skinny with clothes on. He would struggle bald. The second guy is a trick photo because it's well known that we associate his style with a hipster beard and haircut. But, in my opinion, both would struggle while bald. If you're benching 225+ lb for sets of 5, you're already...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Aug 26, 2018 4:55 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Re: Are looks really so unimportant?

strictlyincreasing, One of the most successful local dating coach here is also totally bald. Do you have a great haircut and a nice wardrobe? You may be interested in checking out Girls Chase resident style expert, Darius Belejevas' contribution . Did you check out Darius' latest post for Girl Chas...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Aug 22, 2018 6:06 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Re: Are looks really so unimportant?

You’re looking for an excuse about why aren’t succeeding. While looks are very important, most aspect of looks are changeable. These are a large part of non verbal fundamentals and they are crucial to your game and vibe. If your face looks like shit, that’s fine, you can still do pretty well: 1) be...
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Aug 21, 2018 7:48 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Re: Tinder date

Don't expect anything good if you don't get a phone number. She may well unmatch you out of nowhere. In my opinion, you should forget it. Your time is too valuable. If it's low effort and convenient for you, go ahead and send the morning message to confirm. Don't put any jokes in the message, just a...
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Aug 21, 2018 6:13 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Tinder date
Replies: 10
Views: 535

Re: Are looks really so unimportant?

Consider this quote by Mystery: attraction is an emotion that responds to survival and replication value The facial features of a guy is not a predictable indicator of his survival and replication value. Therefore, they play a small role in female attraction. So what is more important? - preselecti...
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Aug 21, 2018 6:10 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Are looks really so unimportant?

I'm not the best looking guy. I'm probably closer to the worst. As a barometer, note that I need to use doctored photos to get matches on dating apps. Anyway, I've really been struggling to get anywhere with the women that I meet through the apps. But, when I come on here and read the FRs and LRs, I...
by strictlyincreasing
Sun Aug 19, 2018 6:11 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Are looks really so unimportant?
Replies: 24
Views: 1530

Re: When Does Womens' Attraction For Muscles Max Out?

Women do not care about muscles at all. Look at the most desired men. It's guys like Ryan Gosling, whose physique you can obtain without working out. Build muscle if you enjoy it and want to do it for yourself. Do not do it for women because they don't care one bit. Men might give you respect for mu...
by strictlyincreasing
Tue Aug 14, 2018 6:00 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: When Does Womens' Attraction For Muscles Max Out?
Replies: 6
Views: 420

Re: Getting Deleted on Tinder

If you're getting deleted on these apps and you didn't send an odd message, it's almost always because your photos, height and age are not what she is looking for. Look around; fundamentals are everything. On Tinder, those are your fundamentals. You might also get deleted if you ask her out on a dat...
by strictlyincreasing
Wed Aug 08, 2018 4:38 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Getting Deleted on Tinder
Replies: 3
Views: 167

Re: Any alternatives to the GC approach?

But, recently, there has been a lot in the GC articles about how the best situation is to have an approach invitation before approaching. Well, having a cool life, good facial expressions, verbally and physically awakening people aren't appropriate fundamentals if one is looking for approach invita...
by strictlyincreasing
Thu Jul 26, 2018 12:14 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Any alternatives to the GC approach?
Replies: 11
Views: 842
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