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Re: The HORROR of having to validate fake & racist “beauty”

Hey Phoenix, I can relate. My current girlfriend is a Kenyan, and over the years she has shown up with a number of wigs and hair extensions, yet to this day my favorite hairstyle of hers is her natural hair. That being said, this is not a problem specific to black girls. Artifices are what women do....
by Seppuku
Thu Aug 22, 2019 5:13 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: The HORROR of having to validate fake & racist “beauty”
Replies: 1
Views: 28

Re: Zapp's epic quest to get laid

Hi Zapp, I want to step in and congratulate you for this breakthrough in your life. It's an another proof that, when a man is determined to get something and dedicates himself to his goal, then with time and application he will eventually get what he's after. About Married Woman, I notice that the s...
by Seppuku
Thu Aug 22, 2019 3:45 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Zapp's epic quest to get laid
Replies: 30
Views: 523

Re: elite players

Rotating girls after girls is a lot of fun for sure. Your time is shared between meeting two to four "regular" girls, plus some occasional new ones. The most interesting thing is that these girls keep seeing you even if they intuitively sense that they are not the only one. A guy can keep ...
by Seppuku
Thu Aug 15, 2019 5:15 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: elite players
Replies: 12
Views: 179

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Hey EP, The girls I've been working on have fizzled away because I just couldn't make sex happen. That part has definitely been the most challenging part for me. It's an important part of the realization. Quoting Chase again - my favorite quote from him: Dating is a mating ritual, and when it doesn'...
by Seppuku
Tue Jul 30, 2019 3:26 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: Your 20s are the peak years, it's all downhill after that.

Oh Pry, are you following the path of our good friend Toby with his "life sucks after 30"? For me, life certainly don't suck. I just turned 50 a couple weeks ago and I can say that I have never been so empowered in my life. And certainly more now than when I was 28 years old. So I wouldn't...
by Seppuku
Mon Jul 22, 2019 11:38 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Your 20s are the peak years, it's all downhill after that.
Replies: 8
Views: 284

Re: Answer ASAP: When a Girl Doesnt Want to Get "Attached"

Agreed with NM on how to respond. But you are getting this because you send the wrong message. Her reaction "I don't want to lead you on" is because she doesn't want to end up dealing with a needy guy sticking to her ass if she makes the step. Whatever you are doing with girls, you should ...
by Seppuku
Tue Jul 16, 2019 4:26 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Answer ASAP: When a Girl Doesnt Want to Get "Attached"
Replies: 4
Views: 84

Re: My Problem With Girlschase ;) After i didnt meet up a girl with 1400+ follow

Hey Zac, The thing is when High level guys here and everywhere talk about high value girls, i am not sure what is high value anymore. and i have posted this before. I wish Chase can explain what he thinks about this complex phenomenon of definitions. Maybe he will say that it is in the eyes of the b...
by Seppuku
Sun Jul 14, 2019 2:30 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: My Problem With Girlschase ;) After i didnt meet up a girl with 1400+ followers
Replies: 8
Views: 225

Re: June 11th - belated update

Hey FT, I chose an LTR that had the nurturing demeanor that I wanted around MY remaining child in the house 50% of the time. It was a conscious decision over frequent rotations of less relationship-material type women. But this woman satisfies my sex appetite quite readily. Her children live some di...
by Seppuku
Wed Jun 26, 2019 3:07 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

Hey ElderPrice, Thanks again for your input. Good to see that we are in the same line of thinking. So we agree that the conclusion is unavoidable. That may sound a little strange to guys who are still at the early stage of learning Seduction. Initially we all go into this with the hopes of accessing...
by Seppuku
Fri Jun 14, 2019 1:42 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: Ambiance's Ascension

Hey Ambiance, SUMMER 2019 One thing that's been on my mind is Chase's advice to stay sharp in relationships by continuing to meet other girls. Much as I love Destiny, I miss the thrill of the hunt. Not having her around is difficult too. I will not hurt her, but it would be prudent to keep bringing ...
by Seppuku
Fri Jun 14, 2019 12:10 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Ambiance's Ascension
Replies: 64
Views: 5939

Re: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction

Hey, The girls who say they don't want kids today may change their minds when they get closer to 30 years old. But yeah, that was big lines thinking. There are certainly exploitable loopholes. For instance, I could go for girls in the range 23 to 27 y.o. (they still have time before the kids alarm r...
by Seppuku
Wed Jun 12, 2019 11:51 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?

Well I have been following your development for a little while now, and first of all, I am glad you finally managed to get a girl fully naked in front of you. This, in itself, is an achievement, so congrats to that! It is the first of many more. I can't help on the issue of oversensitive Mr Jr. Rega...
by Seppuku
Wed Jun 12, 2019 2:29 am
 
Forum: Sex
Topic: ED help - Too sensitive AND can't get it up. Suggestions?
Replies: 12
Views: 372

June 11th - belated update

It is about time that I post an update here. Today's main matter is going to be miss K - one of the girls that really mattered to me in the last few years. Like I mentioned in my previous entry, things have been picking up again with her since January. It turns out that the main thing that was worki...
by Seppuku
Tue Jun 11, 2019 3:07 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: What does PERSISTENCE mean to you?

Persistence means you don't give up and just keep trying when things look sub optimal. But to me it took me some time to clearly see where the boundary stands between persistence and chasing. It turns out that the difference between both is neediness . In other words, the difference between chasing ...
by Seppuku
Tue Jun 11, 2019 12:29 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: What does PERSISTENCE mean to you?
Replies: 4
Views: 224

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

EP, there have been many good things written over here, with excellent input from Phoenix. This is the seduction mindset in a nutshell. But I also noticed this: The one I referred to as Girl 4 I've seen three times now. The last time I led us both back to her apartment. She just did not want to go a...
by Seppuku
Fri May 31, 2019 1:30 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Hey EP, Very good input. Maybe we are starting to get close to something. Here are my thoughts. I suspect it all boils down to what these women are expecting to get from these salsa nights, and it's probably exactly that: for dance night very few girls show up trying to get laid. Everyone's there to...
by Seppuku
Thu May 23, 2019 5:05 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Thank you again Seppuku! I couldn't have made the progress I have without you! You're welcome, but yet we haven't been able to debug your game. And based on how basically all my dates have gone, this means I'm going to be icy faced literally the entire time. Is that normal? Is it actually normal to...
by Seppuku
Wed May 22, 2019 2:18 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Hey EP, Wow there's a lot to cover. Let me start by saying that everything Phoenix says is very much on point. All good advice. Girl 3 was a clear time waster. She is clearly "not here to fuck". She just want to enjoy being pampered and dated around. She will try to make the party last as ...
by Seppuku
Tue May 21, 2019 4:36 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.

So, I decided to go for the physical attractiveness instead of approaching every "just cute" girl. And also because I approached over 2600+ "just cute" girls and only had 50 dates of which I didn't like about 35 of them. So, clearly, tier #2 doesn't work for me)) It's up to you....
by Seppuku
Fri May 17, 2019 3:47 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.
Replies: 8
Views: 219

Re: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.

Hey nad, About being turned off by some points of her personality: that happens from times to times. Now I suspect that she played her "high value girl" role in order to test your manly resolve. Just be careful, because this is a test, that you should pass like other tests. But the point I...
by Seppuku
Fri May 17, 2019 1:29 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: I met the most high level girl in my lile. And I think I didn't like her.
Replies: 8
Views: 219

Re: What if a guy decided not to get married or LTR in his 30s?

Toby, You may feel now that you don't want to settle down - and it's totally fine, you don't have to. But after a few years, you see new things coming your way: ⋅  Get a girl - smash - rinse - repeat. All fun for some time, but it gets boring after a while; ⋅  You eventually find...
by Seppuku
Thu May 16, 2019 5:55 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: What if a guy decided not to get married or LTR in his 30s?
Replies: 5
Views: 262

Re: Balls of Steel

Ricardo, That was great job, congratulations. I hope many of the beginner guys here will read and learn from this: 1. When you voice out some "relationship-ey" comment, she freezes; 2. When you adopt the "I've already lost her anyway so I don't care" attitude and get ballsy, you ...
by Seppuku
Fri May 10, 2019 1:36 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Balls of Steel
Replies: 1
Views: 118

Re: Leaving Girlfriend For Summer?

Ambiance, Over the year I've had a few long distance girlfriends and faced the question of communication. From my experience I can tell you that: It's best to avoid setting a fixed, daily communication pattern. It establishes a precedent, a routine, a habit, and the day either of you break the patte...
by Seppuku
Fri May 10, 2019 1:22 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Leaving Girlfriend For Summer?
Replies: 4
Views: 207

Re: Help! Is she feeling outmatched->autorejection, or looking for investement?

Also may I ask what made you guess her age to be 30? Because in their 30s women tend to be more a pain in the ass with the "no sex before date X" and other similar "rules". but on the off chance this is reperable I’d like to clarify what you mean by go silent. Should I not respo...
by Seppuku
Mon May 06, 2019 3:51 pm
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Help! Is she feeling outmatched->autorejection, or looking for investement?
Replies: 4
Views: 209

Re: Help! Is she feeling outmatched->autorejection, or looking for investement?

Hey man, I am sorry to be the messenger of bad news, but this doesn't look too good. Your initial escalation attempt failed for two possible reasons: (i) she wasn't comfortable enough, or (ii) she wasn't horny enough (probably a bit of both). She didn't want to have sex and without knowing why she w...
by Seppuku
Mon May 06, 2019 4:26 am
 
Forum: Beginners
Topic: Help! Is she feeling outmatched->autorejection, or looking for investement?
Replies: 4
Views: 209

Re: Going to a hotel easily?

Well, then why don't you try your way, then come back here to report the results. You go on a date, then take her to the hotel and go through the check in with her on your side. See how it goes. I foresee discomfort and ASD, but what if I'm wrong? Try out and see for yourself! She knows you live in ...
by Seppuku
Sun May 05, 2019 6:45 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Going to a hotel easily?
Replies: 10
Views: 304

Re: Going to a hotel easily?

Hey SZ, Going to a hotel with a girl you just met, and going through the check in process with her, has a lot of potential for fuck up. 1. The transition between date place and room is NOT smooth. It's going to kill the mood, very likely. 2. It is going to make her feel like a cheap slut. Possibilit...
by Seppuku
Sun May 05, 2019 12:37 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Going to a hotel easily?
Replies: 10
Views: 304

Re: Frame Control: Where Online Dating Falls Short

Hey BigS, Yeah I have seen a few of your LRs, good job man, you are on the right track! As per my credentials to answer your questions on online game, I am mostly an online game guy, over 120 dates from online gaming in the last 5 years. About setting frames Now to answer your primary question, I do...
by Seppuku
Sat May 04, 2019 1:50 am
 
Forum: Advanced
Topic: Frame Control: Where Online Dating Falls Short
Replies: 5
Views: 364

Re: Is it better to call or text chicks from apps?

My own guidelines, if it helps? 1. I *never* call. You're almost guaranteed to call at a wrong time. What will you do next? On the other hand, a text message is much lower pressure, she can answer when she has time. I understand that you do a better impression in person than in text, but then I'll d...
by Seppuku
Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:28 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Is it better to call or text chicks from apps?
Replies: 7
Views: 240

Re: when it is time to ask her home?

Seppuku, between this and your other answer I have way too much information and will be waiting for my next date to put it in practice)) Fuck This, "If she can smell your neediness, it's off..." that is a big one, I understand now, I wasn't thinking about a person or our connection, I was...
by Seppuku
Thu Apr 25, 2019 10:41 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: when it is time to ask her home?
Replies: 9
Views: 283

Re: when it is time to ask her home?

Like what if she doesn't understand that I want to fuck her. There is a little bit of nuance here. There are two levels in every women: (i) the logical / educated part, mostly conscious, and (ii) the emotional / instinctive part, mostly unconscious. (ii) is the part of her you want to understand yo...
by Seppuku
Thu Apr 25, 2019 10:05 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: when it is time to ask her home?
Replies: 9
Views: 283

Re: I tried so hard And got so far But in the end I was waaay too pushy

Hey nad, What I think happened in your case is, you triggered her ASD with the sexual topics, then tried to pull her home when she was not yet comfortable with you. Also, Fuck This has a point. Just touching her is not enough, it is good to see some reciprocation. At each step you need to gauge her ...
by Seppuku
Thu Apr 25, 2019 8:09 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: I tried so hard And got so far But in the end I was waaay too pushy
Replies: 3
Views: 121

Re: girl says not to touch her at all, because bad energy

girl sat on my couch, we talked about how far dick can fit in her mouth and how easily she cums. BUT she says not to touch her at all, bc that is a bad exchange of energy or some shit, and she doesn't even let her classmates touch her at college. 2 days later she texts It's not happening with bulsh...
by Seppuku
Sun Apr 14, 2019 11:15 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: girl says not to touch her at all, because bad energy
Replies: 10
Views: 472

April update

Three dates, two LRs So just like I posted last time, I had three dates back to back with three girls early in March. One of the girls was just passing through Doha so there was no material time to do anything too serious before she had to go to her plane. The second girl was a cabin crew from our ...
by Seppuku
Fri Apr 12, 2019 5:34 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: Improvement 2.0: a date every 12 approaches, but quality sucks now

6 dates for 72 approaches, that starts to become quite reasonable. But getting numbers and turning them into dates was just the beginning. Now your next step is to learn dating skills: ⋅  reading her body language ⋅  passing her tests and overcoming her objections ⋅  bu...
by Seppuku
Mon Apr 08, 2019 2:21 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Improvement 2.0: a date every 12 approaches, but quality sucks now
Replies: 3
Views: 183

Re: Wasted Years - An Old Guy Rant

Hey MR, Cheers from a former huge Iron Maiden fan! Seppuku (Pierre) here. I agree that Girls Chase has some unique, life changing material. I started immersing myself into the content and ideas written by Chase and others back in 2012, before finally prompting myself out of inaction in 2014 (I was 4...
by Seppuku
Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:00 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Wasted Years - An Old Guy Rant
Replies: 6
Views: 323

Re: LR-: Well that was unexpected. Finally just got lucky!

Good job! You are getting there! Just keep going. After some simple texting, we arranged to get together on Thursday. She asked where we should meet. I suggested her place and she agreed without objecting. Very good move. First date straight at her place, that's the sort of bold move that will win y...
by Seppuku
Mon Mar 25, 2019 9:52 am
 
Forum: Field Reports
Topic: LR-: Well that was unexpected. Finally just got lucky!
Replies: 5
Views: 562

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

EP, We are running into circles. I will eventually sound repetitive. They can't read your mind, but I'm convinced they're reading something about me. Of course they do. Guys who do not see any girl, find it almost impossible to get one girl. Guys who are seeing 3 girls simultaneously, will have no p...
by Seppuku
Sat Mar 23, 2019 1:45 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

1. I think of all the college kids I knew who had their cliques, friends, and large groups which they had a lot in common with. Then I think of how I could never have that in my day and don't even have that now. You are chasing ghosts in my opinion. What do you think happened with all these big col...
by Seppuku
Tue Mar 19, 2019 6:38 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 2138

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

What I say above was regarding how to run the date. Now, regarding how to get a date, I would recommend you think what you were doing before, because obviously that did work. Just do the same! You used to have this part right... Check for what you changed recently that caused your results plummeted....
by Seppuku
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:31 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Seppuku, to be honest, I believe you that if I just stay at it I'll get it... But at the same time, I can't help but be very confident that after the countless interactions I've had with women that I see a clear conclusion here: They're just not excited to meet me and interact with me, and that's w...
by Seppuku
Thu Mar 14, 2019 8:03 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

I've struggled to try it lately because I'm just not seeing any sign of life from these girls. Just like on my dates that you've read about, even though these girls are agreeing to a date with me and give me their number when asked, they're not showing any signs of real interest. No hair playing, n...
by Seppuku
Tue Mar 12, 2019 11:37 pm
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?

Hey ElderPrice, I see Cientifico is already giving you some very useful feedback. But tell me, when we initially started exchanging, you told me you had managed to get close to 40 dates. And now none? So what were you doing then, that you are no longer doing now? What kills me and keeps me depressed...
by Seppuku
Tue Mar 12, 2019 6:28 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: ElderPrice: From 30 y/o virgin to ?
Replies: 143
Views: 3918

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

Except I have no guy friends in my new city yet, I just arrived here, all outings have been with dates I met from dating apps. That's why. Decide what is your priority. Social life? Or girls? It is going to be too hard to improve on both at the same time. To make any meaningful change takes time an...
by Seppuku
Mon Mar 11, 2019 5:11 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 2138

Re: Early March update

So you plan on only using the site to get lays for free right? So how's that work so they don't get upset that you try to get it for free? How do you frame it before the date? How do you let them know you're not going to really be their sugar daddy? Hey Sub-Zero, In case it wasn't clear, yes I am p...
by Seppuku
Sun Mar 10, 2019 8:53 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Early March update

@ElderPrice Thank you EP! Well the eggs shake is not just another protein shake, but actually more like a natural anabolic drink that will promote testosterone and growth hormone in your body, and help increase your muscle mass from weightlifting. From what I have seen in my three weeks experiment, ...
by Seppuku
Sun Mar 10, 2019 7:57 am
 
Forum: Journals
Topic: Seppuku's Journey into Seduction
Replies: 244
Views: 71568

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

Guys like Seppuku and many others on this thread are no doubt good dudes who mean well, and I know they are trying to reach out to me and really reason with me but I've been thinking about this on almost the daily about why it is haunting my thoughts some more, just peeling off the layers here. Tha...
by Seppuku
Sun Mar 10, 2019 5:01 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 2138

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

Very frankly no one can help you if you don't even help yourself. The most urgent thing you need to do to fix yourself, is to get out of this negative mindset in which you are, and which is currently your biggest problem. As long as you stay in the sort of negative mindset you are currently in, ther...
by Seppuku
Sat Mar 09, 2019 5:59 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 2138

Re: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.

It reminds me something I wrote on his thread about 6 months ago: Yeah it's sounds like deja vu, all over again. Once in a while we have a profile similar to yours, where the guy goes complaining endlessly about the little woes in his life. It's always more or less the same. He couldn't do [xxx] whi...
by Seppuku
Thu Mar 07, 2019 11:44 am
 
Forum: General
Topic: Missing out on the social experience of college still haunts me, here's why.
Replies: 57
Views: 2138

Re: Girls on tinder not serious about hooking up

Hey in my experience it can work - sometimes - if she's really DTF. When it works, it's great, she comes straight to your home and bed. But you just lose a lot of girls in the process. It's a choice. Same with sexting by the way. I experimented a little bit along these lines, then returned to the go...
by Seppuku
Sat Mar 02, 2019 12:46 pm
 
Forum: General
Topic: Girls on tinder not serious about hooking up
Replies: 8
Views: 390
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